ok well i started school again some 3 wekks ago and it turns out that my best friend has my ex in her english class..and they had assinged seats so she had to sit next to him...ok and well my best friend and him have been talking and i dont know how but he told her that he still has feelings for me even though we went out like almost ayear ago...and he has a new gf now...and then he tould her that that he like taht i was preety and that my ears were like his..(i know kinda weird)...ok well he tould her alot of peorsonal stuff..and then on friday he tould her that he cheated!. on me over christmas break with his neighbor...even though we were still seeing each other then...
why would he tell her this!..all of these things?..he knows taht shes like my best friend and that oviously shes going to tell me...so why would he tell her?..does he want her to tell me ..and not only taht he then has the nerve to tell her that he wants to go out with me again...after he tould her he cheated on me
2007-09-23 16:51:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sry i already asked this but i dint get any answers last time
2007-09-23 16:51:57 · update #1
You know what, me even answering this is a waste of time, but I might as well say my piece. I doubt you have the self-restraint, but the BEST thing you could possibly do is just ignore the situation completely and move on. Don't talk about him to your friends, to him...nothing. Save yourself the heartbreak because guys are hard enough at my age (22) and they will hurt you if you let him get to you. You should date someone else because
#1 It will help you move on
#2 It will reinforce your own self confidence
#3 It will project a strong positive image of you only making you a more attractive desirable girl to those around you
#4 In high school guys just aren't ready to be mature and rational so you have to hang out with the cute ones and enjoy it for what it is.
2007-09-23 16:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by hellnocutco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he knows your ex is gonna tell you everything they discuss. He don't have the balls to tell u himself so he is using the third party theory. The cheating part he just had to get that off his chest. That's in the past and really would u want to go back after you found that out plus now he has a gf. He realizes now that he lost a good thing. They all do eventually.
2007-09-23 16:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by antonettef28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This took place with me and my ex for each week as quickly as we broke up. Hes attempting to nevertheless have a sort of relationship with you, without dropping you thoroughly, ie merely being friends. he would be attempting to recover from the reality which you 2 are not jointly anymore. Its demanding breaking apart with somebody on account which you're so used to them being around and doubtless, you're actually not terrific in a relationship as boyfriend/lady buddy, yet he would nevertheless want you around as a chum. I know it hurts, and it will for a on the same time as, no remember what happens, in spite of the shown fact that it won't harm perpetually, no remember how a lot is sounds like it. guard your self and that i'm sorry to hearken to you broke up :( X
2016-12-17 08:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by caren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you would get more answers if you used proper grammer and you were more careful with your spelling.
As for what your ex-boyfriend said, I doubt that he said that. Guys do not say those kinds of things to girls. Girls do. If a guy likes a girl, he does not go around telling all of his friends. If a guy has feelings for a girl, he will tell nobody (guys are like that). If a guy cheats, he tells nobody (guys do not like talking about things like this). He will not tell it to the girl sitting next to him in english class. I could be wrong, but I think she is making it up.
If you think about it, if he told her that in class, everybody in the class would hear about it.
2007-09-23 17:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by j-man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend needs to learn how to keep a confidence. If you listen to secondhand information about your stuff then you are being played. If he likes you still and wants to go out then he can ask you directly. But do you really want someone that you can't trust back in your life? Honour yourself, let the past go.
2007-09-23 16:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by Pure Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he feels like a jerk and wants to make it up to you and by telling your best friend this he hopes that you will see that he is trying to be honest and all out with you so that you know he's isn't hiding anything from you this time around
he wants to be honest so nothing comes out later and messes things up
2007-09-23 16:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by crusader22prd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he most likely wants her to tell you, possibly the cheating thing was to give you the hint that he is willing to cheat on the girlfriend he has now with you. in my opinion this guy is a complete jerk and isnt worth your time.
2007-09-23 17:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants your girlfriend to tell you all of this stuff he feels bad about..
But please.. this guy is not serious or mature.. cheating, thinking about you while being with another girl, telling his whole life to your best friend..
Nah.. just forget about this guy I'm telling you!
2007-09-23 16:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by Azucar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best ..you ignore all those "useless" gossips. This guy could be a "psycho"...what he is doing is trying to work you out emotionally ..so that you could get angry or frustrated and "suffer" for it....just ignore and forget this guy ....enjoy your life happily
2007-09-23 17:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by richard wong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first, you need to brush up with you spelling dear okay?
he's probably trying to hit on you the secound time around here. dont let him sweep you off just like that.
2007-09-23 16:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋