Boss want sex?

Question

Hi,

Today at work my boss asked me if I had sex with him every week he would promote me. But I would have to stay after work and we would do it in the bathroom our in his office.

But I am married and have a baby on the way.

But my spouse has been cheating on me alot should I have sex with my boss to get back at my husbond our should I just make out with my husbonds best friend??

J.

Answer 1

R U kidding me???
Why not record him asking you that and just sue him for a ton of money?
I thought those kinds of bosses went away in the late 80's.... Has he never heard of sexual harassment?

Answer 2

How would having sex with your boss and/or your husband's best friend make any difference.Your husband is cheating and I am sure that hurts you; however revenge cheating is not the solution.1) your boss is risking a law suit for sexual harassment, you may lose a good job, and/or the respect of your family friends, and co- workers.you may also create more tension and problems in your marriage but you will have lost the moral high ground.2)confront your husband on his cheating ways,see if your marriage can be repaired(since you are pregnant) or salvaged.If it can and your husband is willing to stop his cheating ways, let go of the women in his life,and start becoming a good husband and father to be,then you can work on your marriage.Otherwise, leave him and go it alone.with luck you will find a much better guy who will love , cherish honor,respect you with your baby. But I wish you will maintain your honor, sense of integrity, class ,and dignity and not take part in any revenge cheating with your boss or husband's friend. No promotion is worth the loss of your self respect, self esteem,and integrity.Think about it. I am sure you will agree with me.

Answer 3

Two wrongs never makes a right. If you do this, you will not feel good for getting back at your husband, but you will feel horrible and disgusting for letting a man you are not married to invade your body in this intimate way. If you are trying to work things out with your husband and his infidelity, then the TWO of you need to do this, not THREE or FOUR. "Let your marriage bed be without defilement" and continue with your husband. (Hebrews 13:4)

If you feel that you cannot go on with your husband because of his fornication, then you have scriptural grounds (the only scriptural ground) for divorce. (Matthew 19:9) But if you want to remember that "He has hates a divorcing" and want to try and stick it out and find love for your husband again, then do that. (Malachi 2:16) Whatever you do, remember that taking your boss up on his offer will only make matters worse.

Answer 4

I think both of those are really bad ideas. If you're expecting a baby you should be more concerned about that.

If your boss told you he'd promote you for having sex with him, refuse! I'd get out of a job like that the moment he said something like that. A boss like that is /not/ someone you want to work for.

Answer 5

Neither. You're risking your job by sleeping with your boss. Not through direct termination, but just think of the aftermath. Secondly, I understand that you are hurt by your spouse's infidelity, but if you pay him back, you won't be any better than him. And you want to intentionally hurt him by sleeping with his best friend?

Also, it sounds like you two really should consider some counseling, with the baby on the way. You don't want to raise your young one in a volatile household.

I hope you don't do this and instead seek more peaceful, viable options to making up with your husband.

Best to you.

Answer 6

Well, for one thing, it's considered sexual harassment for him to be offering you a promotion in exchange for sexual favors. He can get into infinite amounts of trouble and the company could be liable. And I don't know if it will do you much good if it gets out that you're sleeping with the boss. (Or worse, doing it in a toilet.) Being the office floozy is not a good reputation to have.

Answer 7

ok first of,,only have sex with your boss if u want to,, ,,,,
but

if u plan to cheat on your husband to get back at him,, i would advise doing it with your boss, if u like,, becuz it makes much more sense seeing that u will also get the promotion,, (like a 2 in one package--better right)

also note that u would have to stop once ur babay is born,,, after women have children they should not cheat,,, no child wants to be left vulnerable for someone to say there mom is a cheatin whoreish easy tramp *** *****,,,,

so watever u r doing ,, do it soon,,,
but the choice is totally your,,

good luck,, n let me just say consider all the reprocussions of your actions CAREFULLY b4 acting

Answer 8

looks like alot is happening in ur life.. ur husband is cheating on you when ur pregnant? that is terrible .. and ur boss? u shouldnt have sex while having a baby, u might lose the baby! first quit the job, another job is worth it, and what kind of boss is that? jeez
second confront ur husband, threat him and tell him ur gunna throw the baby away, and leave him { dont do it for real} see what he does .. if he is still cheating on u, i dunno what u can do, i mean ur pregnant, i guess leave him, being a single mum isnt bad, atleast u can find anothe man that is better, and u neva no they might not mind about the baby and actually will care for it more than ur ex husband

best wishes

Answer 9

honey,
don't do that! do you have ABSOLUTE proof that your husband is cheating on you? if so, i guess you two won't work out. life is not about "getting about people back". don't have sex with your boss if you are still married, that is committing adultery. talk to your husband about this situation.

Answer 10

well how often do u have sex with ur husband and get little to nothing from it? atleast with ur boss u get a promotion and possable a nice orgasm if nothing else make sure u get a good raise since ur giving him one....
leave the best friend out of it till after the divorce that hits to hard to be wasted on anything petty