ok so my mom works alot and so i stay with my grandma and so my mom wants me to tell her everything that happens in school and i don't have any drama or anything and it just fells awkward to talk to her about anything. and boys...i just try to avoid that subject. i don't have a dad so i think my mom has to act like my mom and dad. shes over protective about boys. and she acts like i'm going to go have sex with the first guy i c. and i'm no! i'm not old enough and emtionally mature enough yet. i talk to my grandma more than my mom but my grandmas easier to talk to and my mom keeps pushing me to tell her something that happened at school when nothings happened. i don't know what to do. help please! and i feel like i will never be able to really talk to my mom. but shes great with make up.
2007-09-23 15:19:28 · 4 answers · asked by morg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It sounds like your mom is sad that she can't [or doesn't] spend time with you, so she trys to make up and give you advise or let you know shes there if you want to talk. That or she just wants to know what your doing and if your getting into stuff you shouldn't, just like any mom would. You should tell her you don't think guys will come into the picture right now, your just not intrested at the time because of school or something. you can also just tell her that school is pretty uneventful and not so dramatic as she might think. Then she might be able to back off so you can talk about things you want. Also try asking things about her life, you may be able to communicate and get along better or she'll be in your situation and stop doing it to you.
2007-09-23 15:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by ....................... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it seems that your mom is alil bit freaked out of everything that is going on in this time! she wants to be your friend but she does not know how to approach you and she might be a lil bit jealous that you talk to your grandma more that her! but just talk to her and tell her that you are not like everybody else and that you know that when you have a problem you will go to her for advice and also tell her that if she keeps pushing you to it that trust will never grow between you 2!
2007-09-23 22:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Suzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your grandma what you asked here--she may have more insight on this situation and could possibly help draw the lines of communication closer for you and your mom.
2007-09-23 22:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mignon F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always make something happen at school. Try sneaking into someone's locker and glue their items to the wall, or put overstuffed ketchup packages in your sleeves so when you lean real hard they explode. Of course, I wouldn't recommend this for you. I'm just saying what COULD happen. Honest.
2007-09-23 22:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Capt. Kiith-Sa Soban 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋