I have this friend who is always annoyed with me. If I look at him sometimes I annoy him. If I don't pay him any mind I annoy him. If I talk to other people and don't talk to him I annoy him .Everything I do seems to annoy him. My very presence seems to annoy him. Once i was talking to one of my other guy friends and he was very annoyed with me. Although a little while before he was talking to one of his girl friends and was totally ignoring me. One day I saw him staring and smiling at me when i smiled at him back he looked annoyed at me and ignored me while he went and talk to his two friends. About 5 minutes after i saw him staring and smiling at me but this time he wouldn't stop. I like him and i was trying to find out if he felt the same way but he told me indirectly that he did not like me like that. What is his problem, why do you think he is acting like this?
2007-09-23 15:13:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In addition I am a very quite and reserved person. And although I might talk to other people I have difficulty talking to him. Twice when I was talking in a soft tone he seemed to be annoyed with me. (However I'm not too sure if this is the only reason he is annoyed with me)
2007-09-23 15:16:33 · update #1
You might be dwelling a little too deep in this annoyance issue that you think he has toward you. It seems like the both of you are attracted to each other. But it looks like he maybe, probably, doesn't want to be seen with you in public. Or maybe you do annoy him. Ask and talk to him about this, there's possibility to clarify the issue.
2007-09-23 15:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by nativespider78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is someone you should stay away from. He is so easily annoyed and nothing you do seems to please him, let him be annoyed with a new friend and find one that isn't mentally unstable. You are not going to please this guy. There has to be someone that is wired correctly and you don't have to figure them out.The feeling I get is he could be a Hitter if you annoy him so easily for no good reason . Go find a normal person.
2007-09-23 15:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you, it's him.This guy is always annoyed, and he knows it bothers you so he plays this game with you. You are not responsible for his emotions, let;s just get that straight right now. He is playing a game or his emotions are highly unstable, and that is not your fault, only he has control over that. Please Please find a nice guy who has stable emotions, because this guy will always have you guessing and worrying and you don;t need that kind of agravation, Think of how much worse it will be for you if you really get involved with him. Find a guy that you know where he;s coming from, you don;t need the heartbreak of a gameplayer or emotionally unstable person.
2007-09-23 15:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by crossroads67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truth is cold, truth is blunt, truth hurts but you gotta know.
People on this website is allegic to truth but I tell it how it is. 98.9% of the time when a guy likes a girl he doesn't waste any oppurtunity to be with that girl and he also trys to find ways of getting to know that girl. Honey your not that girl so find a new guy because he obviously is annoyed. You even said that he indirectly told you that he doesn't like you like that so take the hint before you get hurt bad.
2007-09-23 15:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is very intersting. I don't know what 2 say. It sounds like he wants you all to himself, but then again when you smile at him he looks annoyed. maybe he wanted you 2 come to him. u need 2 ask him what his deal is. Or have someone else do it or sumthing. Cuz he's sounding like a real dickwad.
2007-09-23 15:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by CourtneyGM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There does not seem to be much to keep this relationship going. You don't annoy him, he is simply annoyed. In other words, it is his problem. I think he has control issues and this is how he is controling you. He sounds like a loser. Pursue someone who is interested in pleasing you, not taking bashes at your self-esteem.
2007-09-23 15:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by vcanfield 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are probably young and havent developed communication skills yet. Ask him to his face why he is always annoyed with you. Being straightforward and direct is the easiest way to find out why someone is acting a certain way towards you.
2007-09-23 15:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Kris D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a stupid head game that he's playing. Playing with your emotions bringing you up then crashing you down. It probably is a good thing your not in a relationship with him because he might be very controlling and play with your emotional state throughout your relationship.
2007-09-23 15:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by tray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy sounds like a jerk. The world is full of good people , get to know some of them.
2007-09-23 16:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be trying to figure out how he really feels about you. Try leaving him alone for a few days and see how that works.
2007-09-23 15:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by cris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋