I like this guy and im TRYING to get over him. not to be mean or anything but he is VERy air-headed, dumb. One minute he says he likes me, but now he is saying he doesnt. And when he DID like me he was gonna ask me to homecoming, but he didnt want a g/f. I dont understand. we went to the movies and didnt even hold hands. just a hug. :[ He told me himself he DIDNT like me, but he acts other wise. he stares at me, and he does think im pretty and he flirts, but maybe im just seeing what i want to see. :/ I want to know do u think he likes me or not and one day should I just go up and kiss him and see what he does all though im trying to get over him cause he doesnt like me?
2007-09-23 14:18:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
did U read what U just wrote or R U the airhead? GIRL, im
serious, U R never going to get rid of him because U dont want too. NOW, that we said that tell him U want to go to the
dance not as his gf but, his date...to ease the pressure on him
Once U got his commitment, U have more to work with...you
do know how to dance right...my point, is you're there enjoy
URself and be sure U have alternative transportation home.
LOL.
2007-10-01 11:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey - In my experience mixed signals usually means one of two things 1) that the guy either doesn't like you but is flirting with you for other reasons. or 2) he is confused.
If it is option number 1 he might be feeding his own ego, or just trying to get a cute date for the dance to impress other people, or trying to get something physical from you without earning your trust or making any kind of commitment. It happens. Option number 2 just kind of stinks but you really don't need to spend your time with some who isn't sure if he likes you or not. When you meet someone who likes you and you like them - it's great.
My advice is back off. Look elsewhere. You don't have to be mean. Just be cool to him. If he sees that it isn't a big deal to you, his true colors will show. He can rise to the occasion or be a jerk. Leave that to him. If you go up and kiss him then you've killed the chase and you've laid all your cards on the table. You want to be more savvy than that. And if he doesn't ask you to the dance - it won't be the end of the world. So you go to this dance with a group of friends - or you open yourself up to going with someone else. Move on. Life is too short to play this boy's games.
2007-09-23 15:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kim J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, You don't need mind games do you? If He can't maintain a clear vision of like and dislike, you can't really believe what he tells you about anything. How badly do you need extra confusion as part of you life? Aren't things confusing enough without a person with the certainty of kinda, sorta, maybe, no, yes, every other day? I think you should just take that he can't make up his mind, and you most definitely have made your position clear to him. You would be better off with someone that can decide what they want, and just maybe your kinda sorta guy can make up his mind without you.
2007-09-23 14:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is not dumb, he is simply confused. Give him time and let him think it through. If he doesn't like you, its not the end of the world. Sounds like you guys are still young to even think about a serious relationship. Have fun and enjoy life and stop worrying over nothing. There are plenty of other worthwhile things to be concerned about as you explore the journey of life.
2007-09-23 14:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Rachelle_of_Shangri_La 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just go up and kiss him. Do the exact opposite. Ignore him, be distant and pretend you aren't interested. Chances are if you give him something to chase, he'll chase it. And if he doesn't, then just forget it, the are plenty other guys out there for ya! <33Sammy
2007-09-23 14:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by sammiieexox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie dont waste anymore time on this guy. he doesnt know what he want and nobody has time for that. you want a guy who knows what he wants and what to do to keep it. maybe he is going through something at the present. so give him some space and time. and keep it moving. GodBless
2007-09-23 14:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe im just seeing what I want to see...few words from you sounds so powerful to answer your question. I think his playing with your emotions...
2007-09-23 14:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by RJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he's too shy to talk to you, or he is just a guy that plays girls. you should be able to narrow it down because you know the kid. sooo... yeah. that's my opinion. if he's shy, then he probably thinks he wouldn't make a good boyfriend and would ruin it.
2007-09-23 14:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Tom T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you he might be scarded to kiss you. But if I liked a girl I would kiss her. I say go for it.
2007-09-23 14:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you see what you want to see. If he says he doesn't like you, why would he lie?
2007-09-23 14:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by BullyKiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋