she told me to just forget about her
but i just find it impossible
2007-09-23 14:12:37 · 8 answers · asked by dann_1245 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You left a lot of questions unanswered that would have helped with understanding your particular situation and why she asked you to forget about her.In the absence of such knowledge, but knowing she wants you to forget about her, I don't see that you have any other choice.While I can appreciate your love for her and the pain you must currently feel at the prospect of never seeing her again, remember you can not make anybody love you or want to be with you.I assume you have already tried to change her mind to no avail; so don't go on inflicting more pain on yourself.As painful and difficult as this decision may be, you have to move on with your life before you become a nuisance to her and she feels threatened.Your pain will slowly ease and you will meet another woman who will make you feel loved, special ,desired and wanted; because you are.Good luck buddy.
2007-09-23 14:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to "forget about her", but at least move onto someone else. If you can't have her, then that's just the way it is. You'll have to get another girl because this one is obviously never coming back to you. Sometimes, as hard as it may seem, moving on is the best thing you can do. Trust me, there is someone out there for you that you will love even more then her.
2007-09-23 14:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dana Mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done that to my exs too... I didn't want them to stay single and mourn about it, so I just told them to forget about me. But they just thought that I didn't like them anymore, even if it's the complete opposite.. but it's for the best.. I guess.
But evenutally you will and bounce back. Try going out and find someone new, that's what I did too. Gl :]
2007-09-23 14:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by mscouturee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, dont forget, but dont try to hang on either. Mentally prepare to move on, and if she comes back then you can re assess the situation, but if she said forget about her, then id say do all you can to move on and let the past be the past
2007-09-23 14:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by CHRIS K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you feel for her is love and to forget about someone you love takes a lifetime.
2007-09-23 14:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by xD126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend moved away 2 years ago. I understand. I haven't forgotten her. It is always something friends help you through.
2007-09-23 14:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Street Boy Will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hangout with your friends and meet a new girl
pining for the unattainable is just nervewracking
trust me here
2007-09-23 14:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by k2000kidd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably just mad. but idk your situation.
but it was probably the only thing she could think of to say.
and thought it would make things easier just to forget about her.
does she understand its impossible to not forget?
2007-09-23 14:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by ohyeah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋