seriously...im in a tiny hick town, and i dont get as much exposure as id like to girls, so i really dont know what most of them think, because the ones around here are all the same. im a total nerd, i love computers, im in the process of building my own, im a total trekkie, i wanna be a phsycist..basicaly, science geek. i tend to ramble on about things when i get exited, im geeky like that. are there any girls anywher,e not neccesarily you, but any at all, that like that? not looking for a girlfriend, just for hope.....altohugh a girlfriend would be nice..lol...
2007-09-23 13:48:17 · 24 answers · asked by michael n 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg yes!!! i for one, LOVE nerdy/geeky/dorky boys =) i enjoy decent, educated conversation, but i also like building blanket-forts and having tickle wars. i love video games, and am on my computer a lot..so it's nice to have a guy who can fix it =) i'm 23..and also in a hickish town in texas :o we're out there!! you guys need to get a little more courage and approach us though!! we're shy too =(
2007-09-23 13:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by jj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, may I please encourage you to discontinue refering to yourself as a 'geek', nerd or anything like that. Those are not positive terms for young people who have great minds and energy and conversation and the ability to create. What you need is balance. Just like you put energy and effort into the things you love, if you are unhappy with the 'look' you have, you can change that. Get just as involved in fashion, a look for yourself, read books that embrace other subjects - be able to talk about lots of different things- and realize that you won't be in your town all your life. People who are innovators such as yourself will be in college and on campuses where there are many women to select. Just be ready when you get there - open up to people, Listen and learn from others - but don't you dare give up on yourself and who you are. You are the most valuable person in the world because God made you that way and you will contribute great and wonderful things to our world and there is a young lady out there just for YOU!
2007-09-23 13:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're getting right?
I know at least six single girls (i'm only counting the ones i'm friends with) who love nerds! Because the "geeky" ones tend to treat us girls better than anybody else. for example; they can use their brain (common sense is not included), they can carry on a conversation without talking about football, and knowledge bickering/debating can lead to some seriously intense makeout sessions.
My first boyfriend was a nerd and you know what? he was the sweetest thing i could have asked for.
nerds=adorable.
there is hope! lots and lots and lots of hope!
2007-09-23 13:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by Delilah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nerds definitely will get girls who want a highly intelligent guy. But, you need to learn how to dress nicer to get attention from girls. People are usually attracted by the physical appearance first. When you look nice, some girls will start talking to you.
2007-09-23 13:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many of us, who find the brain very sexy.
Nerds/geeks in my opinion tend to be very caring towards their girl emotionally, than those men who are considered physically desirable by society's standards. I guess it's because you're trying to compensate your nerdiness by being caring towards others...especially to the female persuasion.
Give it time. Or eventually you'll move on to a town or big city that is more suited to your talents and/or your interests. You'll find your girl...
2007-09-23 13:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by NAB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The nerds get the hot girls in the long run. They end up rich. Bill Gates is was a nerd.
2007-09-23 13:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
heres the answer:
go to www.becomeaplayer.com and read the articles on your right. don't read the ones written by DavidDeAngelo, hes a complete fag. and don't buy the books either, they could be a scam, just read the articles and take in to consideration what they say. read it ALL, not just some ALL.
2nd part:
you need a slight build (obeseness fails), confidence, and knowledge on the topic. and girls will fall for you. get the knowledge from the site. it will take time but its worth it in the long run trust me. it gets ur confidence up.
its okay you can thank me later bro :)
2007-09-23 13:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have hope. I am a girl geek, and there's a guy geek here with me, my boyfriend of 4 years. He's trying to fix his computer now after days of fixing mine and his son's.
Hang in there you will meet someone.
I'd tell you more about or geek life but you get the idea.
2007-09-23 13:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by MsW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you something bro. Nerds=good grades which = wealth. When you're out in the real world with big money, you'll see that chicks dig cash. So what if youre a nerd now? its irrelevant. Play your cards right, and women will go to YOU.
2007-09-23 13:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude
Develop social skills, I also noticed a very good trend here.
beware of women with emotional issues and baggage. It seems like you are very vulnerable to that since you are willing to be with anyone, just be careful dude. I seen so many nice geeky guys trapped with hot girls with really messed up heads.
Dude - you are smart right? read on, dude.
Oh, and never have sex unless they are comitted to you - sex just complicates things and drama comes with it.
Be careful dude.
No, you aren't doomed, I'm sure there are geeky girls out there too. You have access to the net, you have access to them too.
2007-09-23 13:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by altair_the_flyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋