my friends say i always flirt but i always talk to guys like that and i dont notice. but i want know if a guy likes me well he think im a slut if i talk to alot of guys?
2007-09-23 13:42:54 · 16 answers · asked by mexicangirl29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know, but i'm mexican too.
2007-09-23 13:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are faithful to your boyfriend and he get bent because you enjoy talking to other guys, that's his problem. Get rid of him. He has a problem with trust, and you don't need that. There are plenty of other guys out there that won't have this problem. My husband is always kidding me about flirting with other men and saying they are flirting with me, but we have been married 20 years now, and are more in love now then the day we got married. If the trust is there, your partner knows you are just being friendly and having a good time. If the trust isn't there, your relationship is already in trouble.
2007-09-23 13:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with lovly1. But talking to alot of guys doesn't matter but if you flirt with every guy you see then you probably are a slut no offense.
2007-09-23 13:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mexican Girl there are a lot of people who flirt innocently and people accept that this is part of their personality. But people can usually tell when it is more then just a friendly flirt. But one has to be careful at times when flirting also as some folks take it all too seriously and might begin to get the wrong idea of what's going on. My wife was (and still is at times) a big flirt. She did slow it down and tone it down quite a bit when one fella she was joking with began to stalk her and actually thought that she was making advances towards him. This was prior to our marriage but we were seeing each other at the time. I was enraged and wanted to speak with him myself, knew him from meeting him through her. But she did not want me to get upset or to make this fella look foolish and asked me to allow her to deal with it, which I did. He did back off and apologized for getting the wrong impression. This is just one of the pearls that can happen from flirting though and it can be moe dangerous at times but can also be a lot of fun. I personally am also a flirt with some females but do so only with ladies I know personally and who know that I am a happily married man who is just playing fun.
2007-09-23 13:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line there. Talking to guys is not flirting unless you're flirting. Men may misunderstand flirtatious behavior with many men. It is wise to only flirt with men you are actually atracted to in my opinion. Talking to a man is not flirting. It is what you say and how you say it. If you are being sexually suggestive with many men, then they will probably think the worst I think.
2007-09-23 13:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Peter O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking is nothing, you're just a flirty person. i am too, and it's gotten me into a bunch of trouble lately because i'm like that with every guy but they each think it's only them. just be careful you dont get stuck hooking up with or denying someone that could have been prevented if you didnt want to do it... so just watch what you do fo realz
2007-09-23 13:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Betty Boop 19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with flirting. Its been happening probably since the dawn of man! I like eople who are outgoing and let you know they like you! you always know where you stand with people like that! So.. flirt away!!
2007-09-23 13:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know about what he will think if you talk to a lot of boys. But if he thinks that you are a **** then he is not the right person for you.
2007-09-23 13:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by in a world of my own!!! :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no nothing wrong with flirting. but u should stop after getting a boyfriend
2007-09-23 13:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by Alan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmm...probably! if you flirt with eeeeeeveryone, then yes. but if you pay special attention-wink*wink- to one guy, then he won't! just make sure you talk to guys like they're normal people! not just guys to flirt with!
2007-09-23 13:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by lovly1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't if you are just talking.
2007-09-23 13:46:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋