I'm 18 and sometimes people outside stares at me and compliments me saying I look pretty/beautiful/sexy and I would smile and say thank you. I'm a nice person with no evil intention, I never backstabbed my friends, even they say that I'm so nice. Even when I go outside to malls and stuff, all I get was just stares or whistles or compliment, but no one ever asked me out. Why can't I be like everyone else who has a nice decent bf?
2007-09-23 13:42:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes its just the matter of being lucky it happens to a lots of other even more beautiful women than you are but, if you are beautiful and no body asks you out probably there is something(s) that you havent noticed that is stopping guys to come. Look on these hints below.
1. Have more friends
2. Dont just sit in the house be where boys could be.
3. Always smile, dont be too serious
4. Talk, dont be too quite, force yourself to talk even though you cant.
5. Try to be funny as much as you can.
6. Show that you Love and care.
7. Always be clean, take care of your nails, hair and stuff. You know even bad breath or dry chapped lips can stop men to come do you know that?
Goodluck.
2007-09-23 14:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need a forum where you can get to know people as friends first. Join a club or activity that you are interested in, so you can get to know people while you are doing something you like. You could take a community class through your city, or there are alot of clubs you can join. Start investigating. People find people who have interests/hobbies more interesting.
Beautiful and interesting and nice, they;ll be knocking down your door.
P,S. Jim T., give me a break, always smile and be funny, she's not a performing monkey, she;s a nice girl, she just needs to be herself and she will be fine. Your ideas are so Stepford wife, old fashioned, june cleaver, the kind of ideas that kept women in their places. It's the year 2007 Jim, wake up and smell the equal rights amendment.
2007-09-23 20:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by crossroads67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be completely honest, I am having the same problem. And it sucks. Because if you are like me. You see all these people with these amazing boyfriends and the only ones that seem to go after you are the slutty boys that are not even worth it. What I would say to you. Is don't try to rush anything just to be able to say you have a boyfriend. Because there is a guy waiting some where that is going to make a move one day and he is totally going to be all that you wished for.
Good luck
2007-09-23 20:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.turnaround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having just looks alone doesn't guarantee you'll get a bf easily. You need to be friendly and look approachable for guys, so they don't have worries of them getting rejected when they decide to ask you out. Learn to flirt a bit with the guys to let them know you're not taken and that they can make a move on you.
2007-09-23 20:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i no exactly how u feel girl. I alo only 15 and i feel this way because every1 around me has a BF and im stuck on the side. But we will have our time to shine! My advice to u would be to find a decent Crush and if u have one then awsome! i have one word for you FLIRT!!! start out small then mke ur way up! soon u will be like every1 else just keep ur head up
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2007-09-23 20:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are so beautiful that guys are intimidated by you. Been there!, Done that, still run into the same problem some of the time. The only guys who really approach me to ask me out are the guys who are absolute losers and feel they have nothing to lose by asking. So give it time, approach a guy that you are interested in, he will be so awestruck that he won't be able to refuse you.
2007-09-23 20:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by Emgee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are guys looking for a girl like you, Be patient. You just have to ignore those stares and whistles.
2007-09-23 20:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys think that the more beautiful a girl is the less she'll want to go out with them. Or they fear rejection more. Try being more open.
2007-09-23 20:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by Fuka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your so young trust me enjoy life! I Had a boyfriend for 4 years, throught out high school and college and he just broke up with me..and its sucks.. Like your to young to get attached to someone because thats what happened to me..i got way to attached to his family and friends and then BOOM he dumped me because i didnt act like i used to like the 1st year we went out--enjoy the compliments from the men go out with your girls...flirt....get out there sum more make the moves on the guys! lol hey we do live in the 21st century--you gotta have confidence in yourself and if you really want a boyfriend he'll come to you trust me.xoxo destiny
2007-09-23 20:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be like everyone else? And sometimes guys are intimidated by beautiful girls. They dont know how to approach them
2007-09-23 20:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by tallglassofwater91 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋