am I just unlucky or neglected by God?

Question

I am always the one to ask people how they are and help them if they are in need and protect them when they need it
I also have the worst luck of anyone I know
It feels like a constant kick in the face when all you try to do is good and all that comes back is bad
I've heard ohh its ok gods testing you aswell as you will be rewarded in heaven

but to be honest I hate the fact that I have one chance to live and it's a life not worth living and I'm suposed to be comforted by expecting that heaven will be a never ending party of happiness

I mean theres only so much I can take people can belive whatever they want but who can be shure that theres a heaven and it will be all that great

and who makes these crappy rules you cant commit suicide because you wont get into heaven but you can kill 100's of people and just repent

well I'm fed up of it and to be honest i just need one valid reason why its worth putting people ahead of yourself and living in missery instead of suicide

Answer 1

ok...I can go on and on about why God lets things happen...but your question was for me to give you one valid reason for something other than suicide....

Because suicide is permanent. There's no coming back.

2- because of the devestation it leaves behind. No family? Parents, siblings, children? Friends..even one...who will wonder if they missed something.

3 - The dignity and immeasurible value of your life. You still have something to contribute to this world. Trust me...that's why you are still here.

Now...as for God and His reasons...I would recommend talking with someone who has the maturity to be able to answer your questions. And if he or she cant answer the question, you drive on to the next one and the next one. If you have any question about God, He's put the answer somewhere.

I'd also read go online and find Philip Yancey books. Incredible Christian writer, (wouldn't guess it by the titles of his books) Disappointment with God...(or) where is God when it hurts?

If I may, I'll be praying that God gives you just one day's taste of the peace He offers. That He wraps His arms around you and helps you to understand, He still stands on the hilltop, looking at the road, waiting for each of us to come back.

† Traveling Prayer Warrior †

Answer 2

Whoa - just how much are you giving to others? Even the Bible says you are not to deprive yourself or your family in order to tithe or give to others.

Besides, remember this is the one and only life you will ever have.
Don't waste it.

Take care of yourself. Do something that gives you pleasure. It seems your "pleasure bucket" is a little low. Go outside and sit in the warm fall sunshine, Take a walk & look at all the beautiful fall leaves framed against the blue sky. Why would you want to end this? Go get a big ice cream cone with sprinkles or nuts or whatever you like. Savor it.

Go to the park, listen to children laughing. Go to the pet store and let the puppies lick your chin.

There is just so much pleasure in life that you apparently aren't appreciating.

Like someone said "Most people are just as happy as they make up their minds to be."

I always say "If it weren't for bad luck, I'd have no luck at all"

Try the Japanese trick - Just laugh! Laugh at nothing! Every few minutes, let out a big belly laugh. And make sure you smile a lot. It can change your brain to be more happy. Try it! It works.

DO NOT waste your life being miserable. sit down and write down what makes you happy and what doesn't. Then chuck the unhappy stuff and go for the gold (the happy stuff). Change your life - what you do, who you associate with. It's your life and you must make yourself happy.

Answer 3

Because you know it's just the right thing to do !! Only cowards commit suicide !! Killing yourself is easy , living is hard !! Don't be a wimp and stop feeling sorry for yourself!! There's always somebody else worse off than you!!It's a privilege to grow old that is something not all of us get to do! So suck it up and make a change if you don't like how your living!! Sorry I just can't feel sorry for you ! I have lost my whole family except my sister their all dead!! You don't hear me complaining!! Surprise there's no heaven or hell this is it make the best of it!! Why don't you go and check out a cancer clinic than come back and tell us all about your life!! Such as it is! I'd like to give your life to somebody who would appreciate it!!!

Answer 4

Oh, hey, mate, look at it this way: if there's a heaven, you'll get there soon enough, so don't force it. Life is shitty sometimes, and hurts like hell, but it's all there is, right now, right here, so all we can do is to try and make it a bit better, for us and others, best we can. There are no rules, it's just up to you to give it the best go you can, no-one is judging you, or giving you points out of 10 for the sort of life you lead. Except maybe you. But it might get better, it just might, and if you check out, you'll never get to find out, will you?

Answer 5

Forget about a God helping you out. You can believe anything you want but the fact is you need to live this life like it is all you have. You need to make the most out of this life and then if there is a "hereafter" it is a bonus. There is nothing wrong with helping other people out and it usually makes you feel good but don't rely on other people or a spiritial being to make your life better. You need to do that yourself. Pick yourself up and make the best of your life.
Good Luck (which is anther thing you make yourself)!

Answer 6

Dear Danyul, you seem to me to be a very intelegent person. So lets look at life from a reasonable point of view, lets put religion aside, and look at the life you would enjoy living and look for a way to get to that life. Let the others take care of themselves for a while, as they most certainly aren`t being very responsive to you and your needs. Get out and enjoy yourself, and look at all the beautiful things around. Teach yourself to enjoy lifes things. When you look at the lucky people, you can remember the old saying and have a little laugh to yourself "the devil looks after his own"
I am open to email my friend. I remember my bad times only too well

Answer 7

Giving you life to him. Allow him to hold you and show him just how much he loves you. I am a living testimony..I had questions about whether or not God is real but I'll tell you if u open up your heart and allow God in you'll believe. God has to show everyone in order for them to believe and to keep on believing. God has brought me through and showed me things that I never thought that I would get out of or see. Just open up your heart and let him show himself to you. He'll do it and I promise u it's not a waist of time because the the moment u feel him..there is nothing left to say but Hallelujah and thank u Jesus.

Answer 8

If you're feeling neglected by God, maybe He's feeling neglected by you ?
I know that because He has given us free will, He also waits for us to call on Him, rather than push His way into our lives.

Maybe this is the wrong place to be asking questions like this, why don't you try asking God whats His take on things ?
I personally don't think its right to kill people, then repent, because if you know something is wrong, you shouldn't be doing it in the first place.
America claims "In God we trust ", well if they trusted in God, they wouldn't fear terrorists.

I will pray for you, that He will stop this "bad luck", and for Him to show you just how wonderful and valuable you are to Him.
I will also pray that He will bring you into contact with people who will bless you in return for the love that you give out.

You can e-mail me whenever you feel down, and I promise that I will pray for you, and so will my prayer team.
Don't give up yet, wait and see what He can do for you.....

Answer 9

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Answer 10

dude dude dude you have NO idea of how i know you feel....seriously my life life sucked so bad. u dont even know....but what i found out was that i basically left God....but then i asked him to reveal himself and show me comfort and happyness......i looked for both and found it; things got better; pray about it....suicide is not the answer see God gave u the gift of life to live and the way u live it is how it can turn out....but see he loves you more than you can imagine and life is so fragile u never know when it'll end so live it up and dont stop it short....thats the last thing any one (especially God) wants you to do.

heres your reason: GOD LOVES YOU.....and so do other people

idk if you were thinkin of commiting suicide or not but theres a reason to live and live happily. God has a plan for you, seek that plan, find that plan, and live that plan out!