That don't care if a woman has 2 kids? It seems like you can't find anyone, where are they all at?
2007-09-23 13:10:41 · 15 answers · asked by missing_something 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't mind at all. My ex.'s daughter was 2 when we had gotten married and I treated her as if she were my own....
2007-09-23 14:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Diggs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I am not searching any longer as I just married a mother of 3 on May 20 of this year. But being middle aged I can tell you that there are many men out there looking for females with you lifestyle and would be honoured to be involved in a relationship with you. Rather then going to the bar and finding a drunk to spend the rest of your days with though I'd recommend that you either join a social event where you could meet people with same likes and interests as you (ie: a hobby or sporting venue). As well there are probably a lot of separated or divorced males in your area that are also looking for someone to trust again. Or if your kids are into any type of sports or school activities you might even meet someone through this. So believe in yourself and your abilities and hopefully someday soon you will also find someone to share all your special moments with.
2007-09-23 20:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that alot of men exist that do not mind a mother with children. I know before I was married, I dated a young woman with 2 kids and I really liked her alot and her kids were cute too! I think you have to meet someone who will except your children has part of the package... Hang in there!
2007-09-23 20:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow - kids really complicates everything, because that means serious commitment.
It hard, kinda like finding yourself a virgin your age, I think that is next to impossible.
They are out there I guess, but kids really complicate things. I mean, for your age I wouldn't mind, but your kids are....
Well..I'm sorry darling....you should concentrate more in being a good mother and less in getting a bf.
I think that's how I would be attracted to you and so would many other guys. Be a good responsible mother and don't put any man before them.....
I'm sorry.
2007-09-23 20:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by altair_the_flyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew two women that each had two kids. The first had 2 boys...loved them with ALL my heart. I would have adopted them and wanted to...planned to. Wanted to marry her.
She cheated on me with a stranger out of the personals and lied about it, but confessed when confronted.
Then:
I knew another women after her....had 2 girls. loved them SO MUCH....still love those 2 girls like they were my very own flesh and blood. I miss them so much....I feel like they are a part of me.
The women was a bi-polar monster with a double-barrel anger problem. Felt the need to treat me like sh!t.
So....show me a woman that is good...decent...kind...loving...and maybe...MAYBE I will risk having my heart and soul torn out of my skin by the roots again.
I'm not saying you are offering....just speaking as a man that has willingly and openly tried to be with a women with kids...TWICE...and given the electric chair both times....and believe it or not, it was NOT me. I had gone to counseling to deal with the loss. I'm a stable, easy-going guy....good career, decent looking, thoughtful...blah blah blah.
Whatever.
This has been my recent experience with women and kids. Kids are GREAT, the women are insane.....at best.
Life's too short.........yanno?
2007-09-23 20:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am here and i have 2 kids to...
2007-09-23 20:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by rican_rican_boricua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on where the guy is at life... okay.. you gotta understand that you are a package deal.. unless it's a one nighter or a few nighters than bail type of relationship.... so keep trying... at some point you'll meet a guy who will love you.. and accept your kids... maybe not love them.. but at least treat them right....
2007-09-23 20:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2007-09-23 20:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Honest_&_Loyal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up, hang in there, Somewhere HE is waiting for you to walk by. :) That special one that doesn't care about anything but you and your kids. Good luck!
2007-09-23 20:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of guys who wouldnt care about that, im one of them by the way.
2007-09-23 20:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋