to be an exhibitionist? I love having sex with others watching & have always been that way. I am an exhibitionist and know others enjoy it too. I am not asking whether you think it is wrong for me to be an exhibitionist (I am what I am & will not change, I am happy with that), but I want to know if you personally don't like exhibitionism.
2007-09-23 13:10:32 · 20 answers · asked by katieisaswinger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you choose your audience wisely, and aren't offending anyone. No one can have a problem with that, it's your body and your choice.
Just be careful who is watching and what they might do if they got it on film, you don't want to end up all over the Internet :)
2007-09-23 13:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
for me i have always said that a person has to walk a mile in the shoes of the person that they are criticize before they could or should, make or pass any judgment on them. so with that said for me the idea of being an exhibitionist the answer is no. i don't approve or disapprove it is just not for me
2007-09-23 13:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a place and a moment for everything
If we were in sertaine places of Europe, by example there wouldnt be a problem.
But since this are the States, -it coud only be screutinised -in more ways posible-; in the planet I used to live on you just have to be related to some one very important up in goverment or with a very high class position . In those cases, there were 2 alternatives: Either you were a national hero or you were fire and your name barried under5 ft. of gravel in the farthest away moon.
Now personally, I don't condem it .
But, the question is, "If your nudety is yours why can't it be mine also?
2007-09-23 13:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by thiny72 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you worried that men will only like you for possible sexual favors they can get from you. When they see nudity, they're not thinking "she looks really smart and funny and nice" they are thinking "I wonder if I can get a quickie from her.
You deserve more than that, you deserve someone that cherishes you for who you are, not what you can do for them. What about if you get hurt and need emotionional support, the horndogs will be gone looking for the next best thing. But if you have a solid relationship with someone who loves you because you for your personality, you have something that lasts, a mutually supportive relationship, where sometimes you carry his burdens and sometimes he carries yours for a while, to get through the hard times and share laughs.
As far as exhibitionism, I prefer not to have other people's stuff in my face, save it for that special someone who isn't out for what he can get, but who just wants to spend time with you because he so enjoys being around you (fully clothed) . You are worth it girl!
Just think about it, I ask you, next time your life gets complicated, consider that it may be the lifestyle you've chosen. When you base the majority of your relationships on sex and nudity, then that's what you will be left with. When you base them on love and friendship, you will find more beauty in that human being than you ever thought possible (much deeper than what you see on the surface).
2007-09-23 13:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by crossroads67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is a part of life so showing it is something natural . It's like singing ,eating ,working ,dancing ..etc. Eshibitionism expressing life but the human race is not ready for this yet .
2007-09-23 13:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, by me not knowing you personally, I have nothing vested in you so watching you have sex wouldn't bother me in the slightest. (Of course I would pluck my eyes from their sockets if you were obese, but that's not really your issue but mine). I also have plenty of popcorn, so what time does the show start?
2007-09-23 13:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not for me, but it obviously works well for you. Cool! And I have no problem with anyone being involved in it either. And as long as it never forced upon me I will never have a problem with it.
2007-09-23 13:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Shel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say different strokes for different folks. If that's what makes you happy, enjoy it. Life is too short to be unhappy.
It's not for me.
2007-09-23 13:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by specialsuber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a voyeur and exhibitionist... it is all personal choice...
if you enjoy people watching you, then let me know... :D
2007-09-23 13:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't care, because every person is their own person, and no one should EVER try to change them. I don't like it, but I'm also not going to tell you to not be what you want to be.
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2007-09-23 13:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋