A girl has filed a complaint agst me for harassment and I rec'd a summons 2 appear 4 court.The matter is so stupid, I can't believe the whole thing. 2 try and make it short, this woman is so jealous of me and angry b/c her husband cheated on her and as a result him and I have a child. B/C he's a such liar I found about her after the fact.Throughout the past few years,she has called me and emailed me on few occassions asking if I was still involved with, if I saw him or if he's been to visit our daughter b/c she doesn't want him 2 c her b/c he will still have 2 c me. I told her 2 not call me, ask him. He's told her that he doesn't contact me, but that is a lie. I want nothing 2 do w/ this man, but he puts it in her head that I do b/c I'm pursuing child support. Recently she really irked me,so I started calling her phone(but didnt talk) or sent text msgs calling her names, so she filed this suit. She's called me 2,but I didn't run 2 the cops b/c its stupid. Can it b dropped?
2007-09-23 12:55:10 · 6 answers · asked by jkw 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Just to add another detail, each time I called my # was blocked but she went as far as to have the police pull the records to identify the #. I have moved on with my life with another wonderful man and her husband doesn't like that. And even up to June of this year he was still sending me msgs saying he messed up and wants 2 b w/ me. She really has it in her head that I'm pursuing him, which is so far from the truth, but she won't believe that. All I want from him is to be financially liable to our daughter. I don't even care if he see her. She has a wonderful father figure in her life now.
She has initiated so many calls to me in the past, it's ridiculous. But I didn't run to police like a child b/c somebody kept calling me. I simply changed my #. Plain and simple!
2007-09-23 13:02:43 · update #1
i hope that you kept all emails and copies of text messages that she sent. you should file a counter claim against her.
make sure you follow through with what you choose to do. the only one that can drop the complaint is the one that filed it in the first place.
you should have never stooped to her level by calling her and not talking or texting her and calling her names. because that is just more evidence that she has against you.
2007-09-28 05:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by joyce m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to get a hold of a lawyer. Your lawyer can get a hold of the telephone company and ask for documentation of who called who. If she called you more than you called her, then it is she who is harassing you. Save all the emails and text messages you've had with this woman. It is best not to contact this woman again, no matter how many times she attempts to contact you. Hire a lawyer, but do not tell her nor anyone you have done so. Once you do, explain it all to the lawyer and show him/her any evidence you can find. Tell him/her the truth of everything and see where it takes you. Good luck.
2007-09-23 13:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Firestorm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully, the Judge reviewing the case will take 7 it seriously b4 something really 5 happens. 2 bad you didn't just ignore her or file your own 3 complaint. That's 1 thing I don't understand. If she was harassing you for having 6 with her husband, why didn't you file a complaint. Maybe it was something you 8? I don't know why I even responded to this Judge Judy question, maybe I should m9d my own business.
2007-09-30 15:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, in fact she has a good case. The fact is you harassed her by calling and hanging up and by sending her text messages. Sorry but you need a lawyer. What you did was a clear case of illegal harassment. She could even push for child custody so she gets the baby and you don't get any child support. Its time to grow up. Stay off the phone to her and get a lawyer ASAP!
In addition your internet communications (like this one) could be considered evidence as well...
2007-09-23 13:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never take it lightly when you receive a summons in the mail.
your good name and permanent criminal record are at stake.
as silly as you seem to think it sounds, you should hire a good lawyer and have him or her there by your side speaking on your behalf every time you go to court.
the legal system is very complex and makes very little sense to us normal folks - get a lawyer and make sure that your voice and side of the story is heard.
2007-09-23 13:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by nostradamus02012 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can file a counter lawsuit. If I were you I would slap the Dad with child support papers too. Get a lawyer if you can. Been there. You will make it girl. Good luck.
2007-09-23 13:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋