i am just gettin over a long period of depression, during that time i gained a ton of weight and i let myself go. i wanna start going out wit guys again but im very unsure of myself bc of my size. im now exercising and changing my diet but i dont wanna be single until i get skinny again so what can i do? im literaly a big girl now and i am not as attractive as i used to be but i am ready to date again - HELP!
2007-09-23 11:53:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Truly if you find a guy that will love you for you he will love you fat or skinny. So this way when you find a good guy and then you get in shape for you and him it will be even better. Plus the sex will be better and you will always know that he loved YOU no matter what.
2007-09-23 12:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by BrandyJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embrace your freedom! It sounds like you know what you want to look like and are taking the right steps towards those goals.
Don't let "going out with guys" get in the way. Take it from me, I wish girls would not even look my way so that I can concentrate on eating right and working out.
In a few months you'll have guys all over you. BTW, girls with meat on their bones are the best!
2007-09-23 19:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,i know it is very hard to be the size that you want to be.but if you do find that special person,why not let it be because he liked what was inside your body,rather than on the outside.because the outsides of our bodies are always changing.size,color,shape.but if we got love,kindness,care doesnt that count for anything anymore.good luck
2007-09-23 19:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about the dating part, that's one of things that happens naturally. if a person like you for you then your current weight shouldn't be that much of an issue.
2007-09-23 19:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by lv_consultant 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any guy worth worrying about wont care what size you are, get back out there!
2007-09-23 19:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋