HI I like this girl in my algebra class somtimes she'll look at me and look away and sometimes I do the same I don't know if she likes or not but I'm a black guy and she's a a white girl kinda punk rockish were complete oppisite but somehow I find her very attractive but I don't even know her what should I do or just it alone what should I do
2007-09-23 08:57:17 · 12 answers · asked by Jeff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes opposites attract. Be her friend first. She may be looking at you and then away, because she has noticed you looking at her. Find out if the two of you share any interests. The differences between you may be the initial attraction, but you need to find out if there is more than that to build on. Differences can repel as well as attract, so befriend her first and see where it leads. Good luck.
2007-09-23 09:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...if she's looking at u, u can bet she's interested. Girls only look @ u to give you a hint or a dirty look! Why don't u b very casual & say hi? Preferably in the classroom cuz then you can make contact w/out having to say anything else then outside as u see another chance. Look, if u hesitate, u lose. I used to b shy & I missed a lot of opportunities. Go for what u want & buck up for the possible rejection or failure. Otherwise you'll b sitting back watching the world go by w/the other guys getting the girls. Good luck, u sound like a caring guy she'll be lucky to know u. B E L I E V E !!
2007-09-23 16:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by tink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small talk is a great way to approach a lady. Remember the old saying "Opposites attract". Approach her with a rose or carnation and tell her that when you saw the flower, it reminded you of her. Later, be a lil bolder and just tell her that you find her attractive and if she isn't dating anyone that you would like to take her out(like to the mall or a movie)
I think the mall is the best place that you can take her because it is there where you can see firsthand all of the things she likes. Its a big publc place, so neither of you will have to feel the pressure of it being a "DATE" and you can really have some fun.
Good luck on your quest
PS. I am in an inter racial relationship and my wife of 7 years and 4 children are definitely opposites.
2007-09-23 16:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Keith D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should try and get to no her and ask her out
if u reli like her ur wiling 2 risk it
it doesnt matter if ur not the same
if everyone was the same it would be boring
but cuz u both like different things u myt having fun experimenting or trying new things u neva no u myt be a match made in haeaven
email me if my advice helped franki2k6@hotmail.com
2007-09-23 16:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm thats happened to me before (im punk rockish my first bf was black) just dont get intimidated by her and you'll be fine
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lemme know how it works out =]
2007-09-23 16:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by temporaryxwounds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract! Good luck! If she doesn't like you, find a girl who does.
2007-09-23 16:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Avielleya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you get to know her, and if you like her you ask her out, and if she says no then you move on. Opposites can attract you know.......nothing wrong with that.
2007-09-23 16:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you like her if you don't even know her? You like the way she looks, but other than that you know nothing about her.
2007-09-23 16:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just smile at her and make conversation to see if she's interested in you.
the opposite thing doesnt matter- that's only looks; you could have a lot of personality things in common.
2007-09-23 16:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by ally 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her if she likes you. she will be honest. my friend and her bf are completely opposite, but they have been going out for three years. hope this helps
2007-09-23 16:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋