I was dating this boy who I really liked, and my best friend stole him from me, how do I get him back? PLEASE HELP!!
2007-09-23 08:30:19 · 49 answers · asked by mdglovesyouu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's over... if you meant as much to him as he does to you he never would of hooked up with your best friend. besides she's truly not your best friend cause if she was she wouldn't of done that to you.
2007-09-23 08:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by sentimental 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him back. He didn't think twice to hurt you. Leave him my angel. I'm sure you're a gorgeous young lady and when you get someone nicer and more gorgeous than he is, he'll be so jelous but it will be to late.
Don't allow anyone to step on you. Be proud and polite, be positive and enthusiastic and be the best that you can be.
As for the person you thought was your best friend, well it just goes to show where her loyalty was when she took what was yours.
Don't hold a grudge, but forgive her and your ex. By doing so you loosen yourself from them, and now you can start anew with a clear spotless good new life. Choose your friends wisely and your boyfriends.
I wish you well and i'm sure you'll find THE LOVE of your life. The one that will respect you and love you for the person that you are.
2007-09-23 08:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should tell them both they are fake *** bastards. lol But trust me hon if you get him back the trust is ALL gone and it's always going to stay on your mind and rot you from within. But if it's going to make you feel any better. After a while find him, look amazing, and sleep with him. Make it the best sex he's ever had and he will leave her. Then send his pathetic *** packing. And of course he will try to go back to her and she will most likely tell him to **** off also. B/c it wasn't about her likeing him that made her take him. It was the fact that he was yours. And once she gets played she doesn't want to feel stupid so she'll turn him away. Get your revenge but don't keep him around hon. He doesn't deserve you and you WILL find someone better. And if all this fails, and you don't want to do anything like what I've just suggested then be single for a while. Find yourself, and make better decissions. Good luck hon. =)
2007-09-23 08:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by juicey_juice803 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the boyfriend and the person you thought was your best friend, your better off without them, you could also flirt with someone you know she really liked, or date one of her old boyfriends, seems some always want what someone else has so maybe it will distract her and she will dump your guy, but remember if she does he still tossed you to the side for her and will most likely do it again. It's best to just find a good guy and forget them.
2007-09-23 08:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by preshus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone back who is low enough to hurt you like that? Focus on your priorities like school because there are PLENTY of guys who will come along later that won't dump you for your best friend!! COME ON, BE A SMART, SENSIBLE young lady. There is plenty of time for that drama down the road. And if you still are boy crazy, go for a different type who won't play you as a fool.
2007-09-23 08:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please.
You may have liked him, but he obviously didn't like you.
Or else he wouldn't have gone to your best friend.
On that note, how can your best friend be a best friend if she's stealing the guy you like??????? A best friend, or even a FRIEND, doesn't do that!!!!
If your best friend STOLE 100 bucks from you, would you still consider her your best friend? And don't give the "well, maybe she needed it" speech. Does she NEED this guy?
I'd be less concerned about the guy and more concerned about your choice of friends. Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but she's no good for you. (and neither is he)
2007-09-23 08:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by tazdoll16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are several approaches to the situation; not all of them will "get him back to you". Using words like "stole him from me" speaks volumes. I doubt that she had to handcuff him and haul him away without his permission. I'll just be he went willingly.
You sound desperate - which will cause him to run to her even faster. Definitely the wrong approach.
1. Sharing him with her will put you in the race, but he may still ask her to go to an event without you being invited.
2. If you are still quite interested in him, invite him to spend time you just you and him. If he declines because of her, well, at least you know.
3. There are probably other young men who are not your favorites, but they are not chopped liver either. Don't lead them on to expect something that you are not interested in giving, but they could be good company and would have worthwhile qualities as well.
2007-09-23 08:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is plenty more boys who would love to have you. Maybe you should take a look at who your Real friends are, Especially if your "best friend" stole your ex. ;)
Hope this helps
//Frankie
2007-09-23 08:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get back someone who left you for your bestfriend ?
Is this guy the nicest most sweetest boy in the world ?
If he was, he wouldn't have left you for your bestfriend.
Come on, think !
Don't get used or be a rebound.
He'll just do leave you again, if he had the nerve to do it the first time.
2007-09-23 08:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jase P 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all a "best friend" would never steal your boy friend.
Secondly -- a person cant be stolen
And last of all, hun, you cant get him back if he doesnt want to be got... so the decision is up to him... Altho I think its best to be strong, shed your tears, and move on. No guy is worth that.
2007-09-23 08:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by mlcjlrich 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF he left you for your best friend then he is not worth being with . why would you want a guy who went after your best friend. that says alot about who he is and who you choose as friends.. he didn't care about your feelings at all, try not to make excuses for him , move on and find someone better. And no not a threesome, been there done that. not good idea.. its great fun but not when you care about the person, for me it was just good friends having HOT sex
2007-09-23 08:36:39 · answer #11 · answered by mommy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋