There is this student at school that I have to sit next to in computer class. Some of my friends and I do cheerleading and he says cheerleaders are the hottest girls in school. He asked me if I had a boyfriend so I said I did...even though I don't. He also asked if I ever...done it with my boyfriend. He is really disgusting and I told my computer teacher what he said. In computers you are allowed to talk and the teacher is hard of hearing, and I sit in the back of the class next to that boy, so the teacher can't hear him say anything. He also kept asking who my "boyfriend" was, so I just said it was this guy named Nick, but he's my friend in real life and I like him also. Anyway, that perverted boy, Christopher, asked if I could "hook him up" with some of my friends. All of them hate him and he starts making very weird loud noises in the class. How can I stop him from liking my friends and I?
2007-09-23 07:56:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I really feel sorry for my friends Jasmine, Stephanie, and Amanda. Amanda told me to tell him she had a boyfriend but all he said was "So what? She'll like me more!" What's really weird is whenever my friends or I wear Hollister, PacSun, Abercrombie, etc., he starts trying to "flirt" with us. He is EXTREMELY ugly, stupid (as in he gets F's all the time), unpopular, and rude. My friends think he's a freak pervert and they always get up from their seats and talk to me and say he's a freak.
2007-09-23 08:09:52 · update #1
Tell him plain and simply to shut up, you don't want to talk to him. If he keeps asking you stuff, don't give him a single other answer than 'shut up' until he stops talking to you. If he really persists, ask a *male* classmate to trade seats with you (or a girl you hate -joking ;-)).
2007-09-23 09:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sheriam 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like a couple of other folks have said, you need to involve your parents and/or some other person of authority at your school. You will be doing yourself and Christopher a favor by stopping this behavior now.
My daughter had a similar problem several years ago, but fortunately for her and the boy that was harassing her, he worked at a coffee shop we frequented daily and my husband and I both put the fear of God into him. He turned out to be a pretty decent young man, but he had what I suppose were a few terribly hormonal years as a teenager and had someone not explained to him that this was inappropriate behavior, I fear he may have done something that would have badly effected the rest of his life.
2007-09-23 09:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by EvilWoman0913 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents about it or principal his parents need to know how their kid is behaving in school because this behavior could actually become into sexual harrassment maybe when he gets older and that's not cool. Something like this similar happened to me in 7th grade and I got up and socked the kid in the jaw I felt bad but he was sexuallly harrassing me and after that he never did it again. Iam not recommending you do the same but talk to your parents about it or principal it's good that you see it as a problem not alot of people do!
2007-09-27 00:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Vix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him hes a creep and to leave you alone. Since its a little hard for your teacher to hear, maybe try going to the principle or guidance counselor and ask for advice on how to deal with this guy. I would warn all of your friends to just in case he tries something.
2007-09-23 08:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak to your parents and ask them to have a word with the Headmaster. You are at school to learn and to study (which I can see you want to do). You don't need distractions and especially unwanted distractions in the form of sexual harassment. If this guy is stopped in his tracks now and advised that what he is doing is unacceptable behaviour, who knows, you may have saved him for being arrested or sued for the same type of sexual harassment in his future life outside of school.
2007-09-23 08:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
get a teacher or guidance counsellor involved to forcefully explain to this boy that his behaviour is seriously inappropriate. He needs to learn what is good and bad communication before he does jail time!
2007-09-23 08:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by teritaur 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth about how you feel. He can handle it. " I don't have a boyfriend but I don't like you at all. Stay away from me. Don't talk to me. None of my friends like you. If you want to hook up, ask them your self instead of using me. "
2007-09-23 08:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Demand a different seat. If your teacher is unable to do anything, go directly to the principal. This is sexual harrassment! And bring any witnesses with you when you approach the principal.
2007-09-23 08:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by kathi1vee 5 · 11⤊ 0⤋
ignore him, the more u acknowledge him the more he will think he can keep talking to you. i would say copletely ignore him and then scream really loud in computer class "EW I WILL NOT MAKE OUT WITH U, STOP ASKING1!" everyone will laugh and then he will be so embarassed he will never speak to you again.
2007-09-23 10:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't force him to not like you. I suggest you tell him to die in a fire and tell the principal about this sexual harassment. If that doesn't work, beat him with a garden hose.
2007-09-23 08:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋