After 3 months of no condact with my ex bf and while i was about to forget him,?

Question

i went to a club and there i met 1 of his friends.We talked and we never mentioned about my ex but after, all the memories came back to me.Now, i started thinking about the past again and i see i'm not so strong.Anyway,i don't want to avoid this club bc i like 1 boy who is co partner there and he seems to like me also.I mean i started liking sby new but this meeting went me back in time.The thought i'll see my ex alone or worse with a girl freaks me out but i want to hang out to this place.What i'll do?

I broke up with him as he wasn't a good person to be with.

Answer 1

OMG almost same exact thing happened to me.... me and my boyfriend (now ex) broke up and didn't talk for like 4 months, then when i was finally into another guy he called me "to talk" and all the memories came flooding back, which sucked.... anyways, all you can do is remember that you broke up and why. if he broke up with you, then remember that he lost you and he doesn't deserve you, and if you broke up with him remember whatever he did to make you want out. if that doesn't work, then talk to him. it'll be hard, but if you can become semi- friends again then it'll be sooooooo much less awkward....
best of luck, let me know how it turns out. trust me, i know how you feel and i sympathize....
good luck!!

Answer 2

Sometimes its better to look the devil straight in the eye to know if you are through or not. If you see the ex, you will know it you are over him or not, and if not then you need to make up your mind if you want to make it up with him or stay with the guy you are seeing now. Life is never easy, but the more problems we face head on the stronger we get. Sometimes we break up with someone for a good reason, think about that reason, and maybe you will understand that you don't want to go back with him, just remember the good times, and never have to face the bad ones with him again.

Answer 3

I would go there sometimes. ok, and what if he has another girl? that would probably make you move on, eventually.. that's just the way it is. i wouldn't go if secretly i knew i go there to see him again. easier said than done. you have some healing to do and you better not overexpose yourself to situations that will hurt you again. perhaps you re stronger than you think now. go once or twice and see what happens. if you see him and you feel totally shatered , don't go again. simple.