They have been in a on and off relationship and now they are back together, he wants his new girlfriend to be apart of my daughters life, i said no not yet, but does any one know if she has a right to be able to see my daughter as well?
2007-09-23 02:33:25 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
short answer---NO
2007-09-23 02:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no rights at all over your daughter. If you believe she is a bad influence, or that when they are together they are mean to each other/ violent, swear too much, are dangerous, etc. then you could probably get a court order that says when he has visitation she cannot come with. It depends on how your relationship with your ex is- is it on good terms? Do you have a problem with this gf or do you just not want your daughter to get attached to someone that will leave? If she is a perfectly nice woman, then let it go. Only interfere if you worry about the well-being or safety of your daughter.
2007-09-23 02:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Dig It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl I do not believe that there is anything that can be done legally if she sees your daughter but that doesn't necessarily make it right or give her any legal right to do so. Fact is that you and your ex should discuss the introduction of new people in the child's life as they don't need a bunch of new people coming in and out of their lives. They may get attached to an individual and then have them snatched away from them because you or your ex have broken up with that person. Ask your ex if he cannot just enjoy the alone time with his daughter and to make sure that he is in a stable relationship before adding new people to his daughters circle of people.
2007-09-23 02:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she doesn't have any legal rights at all. If it is of any comfort, even if you ex marries the new girlfriend, she still has no legal rights to see your daughter unless an Order in made in Court to this effect. Practically speaking, you need to discuss with your ex the impact on your daughter of seeing daddy with the new girlfriend and introduce her slowly. If you are uncomfortable then just say no, not yet.
2007-09-23 02:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by Evie Bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no legal right to see your daughter
However the childs father does have a right to see her and what he chooses to do or who he choosen to introduce to your daughter is up to him
I hope for your daughters sake that her father and you can communicate well enough that you can discuss the fact that they have been on and off and how introducing someone into her life one month and taking her out the next is not beneficial for the child.
Good luck sweetie you sound like you only want the best for your child.
2007-09-23 02:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive women like to over use the best interest of the child argument far to fricken much
Men do not complain when an ex has a boyfriend in parenting issues .
Women do .They justify anything they can to make sure the guy is single .This is one of the ways they do that .
So unless your ex's girlfriend is cruel or mean to your daughter do not use your daughters visitation time as a bargaining chip to inflict pain on your boyfriend .
Do not use the choose between daughter vs girlfriend .He will resent you on this .
Women are hypocrtitical on this issue .
Do not ruin his social life to get back at him .
Do not do crap like you cannot have your daughter around him when he is with your girlfriend becuase that is pure and utter bullsh*t
i hate the fricken hypocrisy with women on this issue
Do not justify your tampering with your boyfriends social life with spurious secuirty concerns with the girlfriend
My ex has a live in boyfriend she has custody of my son so i dont sympathize with you in he least
Do not play the head game of daughter or girlfriend not on the same weekend bullsh*t
Do you have a boyfreind ? I bet you do .
Dose he object to you having a boyfriend arounfd your daughter ?
Shame on you!
2007-09-23 02:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem with my ex. He gets involved with different women very quickly and wants to include our boys in his outings with his latest. The boys don't usually like his girlfriends and I tell him that they need time with him alone, but it doesn't seem to penetrate. Unless the woman is doing harm to your child I believe there is nothing you can do about it. As their father he has the right to see who he wants and include your child if he thinks he should. Perhaps telling him that your daughter needs one-on-one with him, without criticizing his girlfriend,will help. At a recent counseling session, I had the counselor tell him the same thing, but it didn't help. Good luck.
2007-09-23 02:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think they are serious about each other and she is going to be part of his life then it's going to be hard not to let her see your daughter but if there has been loads of other girlfriends come and go then it could just get confusing for your daughter.
Best of luck with whatever you decide.
2007-09-23 02:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by den 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not come to an agreement and all meet say at the park or suitable ground. your daughter will find her family one day and doing it now there wont be any comebacks to you later in life that you have kept her away. say meet once a week for a couple of hours life is to live yesterday is gone so bury the passed and enjoy life with your daughter
2007-09-23 03:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do whatever is in the best interest of your daughter. I am not sure how old she is, but if she is young enough to get really attached and then get hurt if they break up, then I think its better for the gf not to spend time with her. However, if she is old enough to handle the situation with the gf, it might be better to just let it happen, rather than have to experience the turmoil between you and your ex about it. Sometimes the fighting between natural parents regarding a situation is worse than the situation itself. Just use your best judgement.
2007-09-23 02:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by Kristi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
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2016-04-21 08:42:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋