well about 8 days ago i kissed a complete stranger at a park. also, i almost had sex with a different starnger in the same park. does that sound like i was being a whore?
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2007-09-22 17:16:10 · 72 answers · asked by γσυ мєαи єህєяγтнìиɠ тσ sσмєσиє❤ 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i said i ALMOST had sex but i didn't
2007-09-23 06:00:11 · update #1
Sorry, but yeah it does...
2007-09-22 17:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by LNLT2130 3 · 10⤊ 1⤋
The thing about young girls today is that there is such a need to be accepted that they will go to great lengths to make sure that they are. Everyone needs attention, but the attention you will get by exhibiting this reckless behavior and low self respect will not get you the kind of attention that you deserve. We as women have to learn to love and respect ourselves if we want others to do the same. If you have to ask someone if what you did was wrong than it sounds like you already know the answer.
2007-09-26 10:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say yes. Kissing a stranger and having sex with another does not look good and it is not good. How do you know that these strangers did not have some disease? You need to think before you act in the future!
2007-09-22 20:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by buzymom72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strangers? Sounds like you may have some self-esteem issues there, sweetie. Please do yourself a favor and be more selective, you are better than that; you know better, otherwise you wouldn't be asking us here. Just bide your time; rather than jump into a stranger's bed (so to speak) just to feel like you're loved by someone, take your time and get to really know someone before you sleep with them. Sleeping with a stranger is NOT love, it is physical gratification; and I can guarantee you, you will feel guilty about it afterward, even if he doesn't (and he probably won't). When you realize that you are a person of worth, of value, others will see it in you and you will find the man of your dreams. It takes time, be patient.
2007-09-22 17:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by purrfectpals5 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would consider yourself lucky that those strangers didn't beat you up and rape you! May I suggest that when you go to the park you take a friend or a big dog. Why would you do ANYTHING with a stranger? Some people say yes this would make you a ho, I say this makes you stupid!
2007-09-30 05:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by eZonis34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I would like to point out that IF A GUY WAS POSTING THIS IT WOULD BE CONSIDERED COMPLETELY NORMAL. If you're not committed to anyone, then who cares. You're allowed to have fun and explore your sexuality without being called a whore. A few years ago after my long time boyfriend and I broke up, I started casual dating. I went into the date completely honest with the guy that I wasn't looking for a relationship, but that didn't mean I would have sex with them, I was just looking for a fun time. Sometimes we'd wind up kissing, making up, or getting close to sex, but I always drew the line. I did, however, have a couple of guys that I called when I wanted to cross the line, and we always used protection, we always knew it not part of a deeper relationship, and we always knew that it was mutually just for physical pleasure. I'm sure there are a lot of people out there who would call me a whore, but I don't care. I was already sexually active, and let's face it, sex is pleasurable! Just because I'm not a guy doesn't mean that I have to be in a relationship to have sex and still be respectable. I wasn't spreading the love around to anyone who wanted it, I wasn't for sale, I just wanted to enjoy myself. I'll point out I was 21 at the time. So if you're under 18, eh, I don't suggest it. High school is a bad place for the reputation you're bound to get, whether it's fair or not. With that word of warning, as long as everyone involved knows that it's an open relationship kind of deal and doesn't expect anything more, than just be safe. Get on birth control, and use a condom every time. If you did what you did 8 days ago it could progress to more. Don't count on the guy to bring protection. Pack your own condoms, be responsible. HAVING SEX DOESN'T MAKE YOU IRRESPONSIBLE BY DEFAULT!
2007-09-22 17:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by Chels 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
whore OR STUD?
that is the big question these days. is it safe to keep involving yourself in these spots. not at all! You can get a bad reputation that can scar you for life, some guys don't know the meaning of no. And then there is pregnancy, stds and hiv! you have to be safe and respect your self. I know guys get away with it all the time. But save your moments for someone special and not any stranger from the park. You don't know where he has been and how clean he is. yuck.
but to each his own...i urge you to be safe and get tested all the time. you only have one chance to keep your body safe. and yes kissing and oral can lead to stds!!!
2007-09-22 17:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah kinda because they are strangers. You can't just go around and have sex with strangers. Be careful with who you get intimate with. But have fun!! Try it with someone you know. Then it doesn't sound that bad :)
2007-09-22 20:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by Aliana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The kiss not so much, but the almost having sex part. MOST DEFINITELY!! My suggestion slow down enjoy life and for the love play hard to get!!!!!!
2007-09-27 20:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it does. Are you really that desperate to have sex with people you don't even know. Slow down and wait until your married to have sex. If you keep this up you'll end up with AIDS or pregnant or with some other disease by 20.
2007-09-23 04:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you sound like a gross skank. And you know what? You sound awful proud of it. Get some real self esteem. You know, the kind that comes from accomplishment and NOT from male attention.
2007-09-22 22:25:10 · answer #11 · answered by mamamaa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋