you have a crush on somebody and she does NOT; what's the best thing to do in this situation ?

Question

a complete and well-explained answer would be appreciated.

please mention your own experiences as well

Answer 1

The only right and dignified thing to do is back off of the romance angle and just be her friend if you can honestly do that without your crush feelings getting in the way. If you can' handle that, then back off completely

Answer 2

This is a tricky situation. Try being gentlemanly. Something as simple as holding a door open will be greatly appreciated. Doing little things like this for her will show her that she's important to you. Just don't be too eager, and don't try any lame pick up lines. If you only want sex (or if you act like that's all you want), she'll pick up on it and bail faster than you can say "stood-up." Just be patient, it might take a few tries (or more) for her to realize that you like her. When (if) she gets the message, just start talking to her. Eventually, try exchanging e-mail addresses, maybe phone numbers later on (go for e-mail when you first start breaking the ice). Then (this is the tricky part), after you two feel comfortable talking with each other and hanging out, ask her on a date. I can't give you any advice on that except that you shouldn't be nervous when you ask her out, it's not a big deal. There are three possible scenarios.

1) She likes you, and she says yes. If your first date goes well, ask her out again. You two have a good shot at going steady.
2) She doesn't like you and says yes (you'll pick up on it if she did, trust me). You DON'T want to pursue a relationship with her. Back off.
3) She doesn't like you that way and says no. DON'T start pestering her or asking her out repeatedly. Again, back off.

Answer 3

Well for me all I did was give myself some space, and just being a friend. It takes a little bit of time to move on, don't worry. I still have a crush on the guy I like but not as much as I use to.

Answer 4

Well firstly you really need to establish that she really does not! ...Is she just playing hard to get or maybe she's shy?

If you have worked through the fact that she may not have a crush, then the only thing left to do is to leave it alone. Try to build a friendship with her to see where it may lead?

Try not to smother her though, as she will run a mile if you do not attract her.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Just forget about her. If you can't stop thinking about her, just try to force her from your mind. Don't look at her when you walk by, make it a point NOT to look. Shut her off from your vision, from your thoughts, and from your heart, and while it may take a couple of weeks, eventually her effect on you will start to fade. It'll take awhile to get over her completely, but eventually it will pass. :)

Answer 6

Okay there are tons of girls out there for you. One day you will find a really hot girl that your in love with and she will like you back. I think that you should get over this girl and look for the girl in your dreams. Not everyone is "made to be"!


Good luck

Answer 7

make her have a crush on YOU. Act kool, dress like cool dude, walk by her, make her notice you. Do SMALL things to slowly make her crush on you, then she will really like you. That's the time to ask her out or go to the movies or something.

Answer 8

Yea I've been in this position.....many times...and yea it sucks....

What I do is just try to get past it and just be their friend for awhile and eventually they might like you. And if they never like you...Know what? their loss!
If you can't get over it...just try to keep yourself busy with other things like a sport or a club to try to get your mind off of it!

Good Luck!

Answer 9

The best thing to do in this type of situation is get over her, talk to me, & give me best answer. :)

Answer 10

the best thing to do is to move on. i hate to say it but you have to if there's no chance with the 2 of you.. find another love interest :]