what do guys look for in a girl?

Question

is it looks? or personality? or both...
thanks.

Answer 1

I see this question a lot so I'll try and break it down for the girls who are having trouble with this:

It all starts with what we're looking for "from" a girl first, then that gets broken down into what we're looking for "in" that girl.

There are four major things guys are looking for from a girl:
1) Friendship
2) Sex
3) Girlfriendom
4) Wifehood

From there, what we look for in a girl of any of those categories vary between each of us.

But for the most part:

From #1) The rarest of the 4, we look for the same things we would from a guy friend - no (zero) emotional attachment/baggage. No (zero) commitment (unless previous given/stated - like "you gonna drop me to work, right?"; even then it's a very conditional commitment - like "yeah, but be outside because I'm not waiting!"). No (zero) attraction of any kind; any attraction (looks, personality, etc.) by default automatically negates this category. A guy looking for a friends would typically look for another guy, unless their gay, gluttons for misery, naive, optimists, etc. So if a guy says he's just looking to be friends, he's either lying or has absolutely no (zero) interest in you - thus wouldn't be overly or overtly "sweet", "nice", etc. This is why little boys can be friends with little girls because in pre-adolescence all these laws are naturally applied.

From #2) 90% Looks, 9% Personality and 1% Intellect. Even when drunk, a guy ~imagines~ the girl he's interested in is good looking. Now, although, what we consider good looking varies from guy to guy, it generally falls to the Hair, Face, Chest, Backside, and Legs with the order of importance varying greatly. A girl's personality has some, albeit limited, sway over most guys' decision-making in this category, if you're very attractive and sexually attracted to a guy, but find it difficult to get that guy in bed, it's more than likely he has a very serious issue with your personality that has developed over time, thereby increasing its general percentage. In this category Intellect is virtually a non-issue; but like Personality, it's only trump is in how it negatively affects a girls physical attractiveness, which isn't much since some guys find intelligent girls attractive.

From #3) This one is the trickiest. So much so that percentages are useless. It's almost a sliding scale between all three traits, looks, personality and intellect. If a guy is looking for a very good-looking girl more than likely it's a sexual relationship rather than emotionally intimiate relationship he's interested in. On the other hand, if a guy's looking for a girl with a "really great personality" then it's closer to the Friendship category. So if a guy is looking for a girl for this particular category it would be an amalgamic (if that's a word) interest in all three traits (looks, personality, and intellect) specific to that particular guy.

and From #4) There is an indescrible quality that every person has. When a guy is looking for a girl for this category they look for that indescrible quality. It's not physical attractiveness but it is a distinctive type of Beauty ("She's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen"); it's not a girl's personality per se but it is her individuality of character - her uniqueness ("She's unlike any girl I've ever met"); and it's not her intellect as much as it is what she thinks about and how she thinks about it. This category easily lends itself to the old "to each their own" idiom since it usually starts with the previous category and grows from there, refining itself.

I hope this helps. (^_~)

Answer 2

As Damian Marley Said ' Whats Inside Of People Is Beauty To Behold '

Answer 3

I have no source other than myself. But from this man's point of view, "most guys" look for self satisfaction. This has been true since the dawn of time. Firstly,...when a woman refers to the opposite sex as "guys",....as opposed to "Men",...she's been hurt. Secondly,...to all the women in the world who've graced me with a smile,...I thank u . Thirdly,...in a nutshell,...A man wants a woman who is happy with the way he already is. He does not want to be "shaped,...molded,...trained,...designed,...developed,...choriographed,...inspired by things that do not inspire him,...mapped out,...rolled around like a piece of clay in a sick little inadequate, self centerred plot concocted by a woman hell bent on creating her nestegg. Not all women are like this,..I'm not sure what the percentage is,...but To the ladies I say this,..there are probably more men who act in this way than there are women,.....Women are precious,...life givers,......Sad so many feel we're all scumbags,....cuz,....not all of us are. Some of us even come with brains intact!......ok,...most of us anyway...

Answer 4

sure some of it's looks, for the more concceited, usually meaner guys that's all it is. But that's ok cuz that's not the guy you want. Yeah it's mostly the personality, once we see how nice you are you seem much more beautiful on the outside than before.
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Answer 5

a girl that can be naughtyly sexy. Intelligently witty, at least one apendex, at least 5 teeth ( preferable next to each other)
Both eyes that look in the same direction and doesn't attract flies. She's my girl.

Answer 6

id go for personality but most boys go for looks

Answer 7

Long sexy legs.