2007-09-22 11:49:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No, tell him that his taste in clothes is appalling
2007-09-22 11:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by Doodie 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Some men are cross dressers but normal in every other way. NOt perverts or evil people but born with this quirk. You need to talk with him about it, not pretend or it will grow like a cancer.
If it helps, see a counselor with him if possible, if not possible see one yourself. This is traumatic for someone who trusted her man was made of other stuff. It's a shock and fills one with loathing. It need not destroy what you have unless you try to hide it from both of you. He may have had an experience during his formidable years that triggered the fetish.
God bless you and good luck! I almost forgot, don't blame yourself, ok? It wasn't because you aren't good enough or sexy enough. Don't blame yourself!
2007-09-22 19:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by wpepper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm not sure who you mean here! Don't pretend you saw nothing though, always better to be honest where it's a 2 year old child, your husband or your 60 year old father!! Personally I'd be more bothered they were wearing my shoes - maybe this could be a thought for their christmas pressie??
2007-09-22 18:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him who? Your brother, the neighbor, your dad, Uncle Ernie?
Your strange cousin Neddrick? Who? In any case, if the shoes fit...let 'im wear 'em. Just kidding. You need to fill in some blanks here...if someone broke into your home have him arrested. If it's someone related to you, or a friend, tell them to knock it off. No one should wear your clothing but you, and you know this.
2007-09-22 19:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by teacupn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wedgies with a dressing gown? At least give the poor chap some fashion advice....
2007-09-22 19:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by scooter 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go wear his t-shirt, belt and sneakers. The large t-shirts are most comfy. In the meantime watch for other tendencies. Once when I was married and didn't get a chance to wash clothes cause we were so busy, my husband offered me a pair of his shorts to wear under my dress. He said "don't worry, you girls have stall doors". I was speechless.
2007-09-22 19:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh My Gosh !!!
I'd hate it! Theres no point you pretending you dont know, because it will rear its ugly head again one day. Also surely you are going to be wondering what hes up to when you are not around, and is trying on your clothes? Talk it over with him Hun good luck
2007-09-23 08:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Glitterbomb ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have the same size feet?!?!
cripes that could have hurt.
Damn interesting question though, i'm male and never felt the urge to wear womens clothes- ok well once when messing about with me girlfriend lol
Certainly not in secret so sorry, i don't understand what could be going on in his head.
2007-09-22 18:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by Icarus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so its obvious he is into womens clothes. don't pretend this can cause you to get into a depress mode. talk it out with him. honestly its nothing criminal, everybody has there secrets, its a shame he is doing it behing your back, or maybe in saying that, he might of wanted you to see him, because he can't bring himself to openly talk about it. Have a chat with him, all will be ok i am sure. good luck.
2007-09-22 18:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Rachellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends who he is...is he your five year old? Than just laugh. Is he your neighbor ? Is he your dad? Is he your husband? I would ask him what he likes about them...or if he is thinking of a halloween party. Maybe he needs silk sheets or satin pj's if he just likes the fabric....or maybe you need to know something so you might as well ask. Depends how much it disturbs you.
2007-09-22 18:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by wawawebis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's all you saw him in then don't worry!
On the other hand, if he wore your 3 piece sexiest undies beneath the gown, then get a new bloke!
2007-09-22 18:57:23 · answer #11 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋