His name is Ryan,he is so sweet and senseative,and so down to earth,but I found him cheating on me with 30 different girls!Help me!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-22 10:31:58 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG. And he is still considered to be your boyfriend?!! 30 seems a bit high.... but anyways
Get some self esteem and dump his a**! There are other sweet, sensitive, and down to earth guys out there, that DON"T CHEAT ON THEIR GIRL FRIENDS!!
All those good qualities went down the drain when he cheated on you. They don't exist anymore. The girls he is cheating with probebly think the same thing about him as you do (did), until he cheats on them too. Not to mention. Think of it this way. If each one of the girls he's cheated with has also had sex with atleast 2 men, then you have just had sex with 61 people, not including any previous relationships you have been in!!!!!!
Here is your help: DUMP HIM, and get yourself tested for stds. It'a sad truth... but its better to protect yourself.
I wish you the best.
2007-09-22 10:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen He Don't Love you Baby girl i mean u don't wanna be with anybody who is gonna cheat on every second that u is away from him u wounder what he is doing i know are to good for him that's not what u need u need to wake up and smell the coffee you say he is sweet and sensitive but if he is why do he cheat on you and he is not down to earth he keeps cheating aids and diseases are out there you don't wanna catch nothing leave him alone don't cheat on him cause two wrongs don't make a right
2007-09-22 10:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by esha_licious69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not as sweet and innocent as you make him out to be if you found him cheating on you! Revenge is a dish best served up cold and the colder the better! You should cheat on him in a public place for everyone to see. Then let everyone talk about it and approach him for confirmation of the affair. Then you should cheat in private and let him walk in on you and catch you nice and personal like. Basically, let him feel the same humilation and hurt that you have felt in return!
I am sorry, but some guys are dumba**** and don't appreciate a fine lady like you!!
Now don't get me wrong on this because I sincerely do not want anyone to get physically get hurt in this. But he needs to know that every wrong action he takes there are consequences to those actions...
2007-09-22 10:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by Buddha! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You leave. Take it from someone with experience -- leave him now. No one "sweet and sensitive" would cheat on you with 30 (or even 3) different girls. You will NEVER EVER be able to trust him. You will torment yourself wondering where he is, who he's talking to, if he's lying right to your face. Totally not worth it. He's a jerk, but when people see you tolerating his behavior, it makes YOU look like more of a jerk. And every time you catch him cheating--again and again and again--your friends and family will lose more patience with you, and after a while, no one is going to care when you're sad and crying. Just STOP TALKING TO HIM. NOW.
2007-09-22 10:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, No, No, no, no,...........Its why would you deal with a cheating BF? The problem person is you! Why would you? To waste ones energy dealing with anothers morality makes you a parent.....? Now with everything in life at a premium, why would you choose to tango with a pig? Why would you want to incur the filth and grime that would enevitably fall all over you. Its not easy getting up out of the muck you'd be in and yet you'd consider it? Check out your IQ, talk to a counselor, talk to older women you admire. Just get some help.
2007-09-22 10:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by kim 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well he is that sweet and sensitive he cheated!!!! not so sweet and sensitive really and he is that down to earth he is obviously horizontal 30 times anyway! Get rid he aint worth your time
2007-09-22 10:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously isn't that sweet if he is cheating.
If you care that much about him than you could always have an open relationship. Then you can get some too. Other than that there is only one way to deal with a cheater, ditch them.
2007-09-22 10:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by justin ohio 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, get rid of Ryan. Next, start to develop a sense of sizing people up....are there some early signs that Ryan showed---that told you he is dishonest? Listen to those signs and if you develop these skills early, can save you a lot of heartache later on.
2007-09-22 10:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by skyward 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wasn't cheating...define cheating in this sense. In my opinion, you make it sound like you walked in on him making out with 30 girls at the same time.
If he was just hanging out with them, talking, or something like that then whats the big deal?
2007-09-22 10:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes indeed! Ryan is SOOOOO sweet and sensitive.....that's why he's cheating on you with every girl he sees. GET REAL!! The only word you need to know is "Good-bye."
2007-09-22 10:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋