I have not seen or talked to her in 5 or more years but she just recently sent me a birthday card should i through it away or send it back or possibly read it please answer this i am really confused
2007-09-22 09:07:54 · 16 answers · asked by sam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Who is "she", what did she do to you, why haven't you spoken in 5 years, how is it she happened to remember your birthday after all this time? There's a tremendous backstory here that you haven't even skimmed the surface in telling.....that's infinitely more interesting than anything we could possibly babble about.
2007-09-22 10:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know who she is but, you'll never know what your reaction should or shouldn't be until you read what she said. Whether you not you answer back, remember forgiveness is the key to happiness. All hate does is create more hate.
2007-09-22 09:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by phovisi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she is an old girlfriend? if so, it doesn't hurt to open it and see what she has to say. you may still have feelings for her and it would be possible to get back together. even if it's still over and you have no feelings for each other, it's always good to treat her as an old friend. the only way to find out is to meet her for coffee somewhere. do this with the attitude that everything will work out either way.
2007-09-22 09:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by itsjustme 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hi sam I dont know who "she" is but I am assuming it is your mother..what was the reason for her leaving and i am sorry that your havent heard from her since .I can see you are angry but I would like to see you be the bigger person..we dont know what her cercumstances are.Yes she is wromg for that but at least meayby now she is trying to start a new bridge to you..let her..and see what happens but you can let her know your feelings without acting out
2007-09-22 09:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Read it.See what she has to say.No hate note not a good idea. If u don't like what she has to say ignore it or throw it away.No need to stress out.You'll be ok.
2007-09-22 09:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on who SHE is. Exgirlfriend, friend, mom, grandmother, aunt??? Read the card. At least hear what SHE has to say.
2007-09-22 09:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by honeybear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 10:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by starcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your should call her and say thank you for the birthday card. that was a nice gesture for her to remember your birthday and think of you like that.
2007-09-22 09:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by carol anne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she does things like this to manipulate and control, well just throw it away... only you know what she is really like.
2007-09-22 09:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open it up, read it, and send a thank you note afterwards!```````
2007-09-22 09:11:06 · answer #10 · answered by Moose 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋