Why do my parents always get mad at me when i tell them something true? They start telling me if i talk like that one more time... or shutup...or even anything that they could do to get away from the fact that i am right and that they r wrong. It Pisses Me Off, they say there friends sons are smart and good grades and never talk back, and truthfully i dun believe that. Not saying im a bad kid i really getting my grades up this yr.
2007-09-22 04:18:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Do you actually think you know MORE than your parents?
Do you really think that YOU are smarter than the 2 people who raised you?
This is a great quote for YOU:
"Teenagers, move out NOW while YOU still know EVERYTHING!"
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2007-09-22 04:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
They are parents... this might surprise you. They actually do know more than you. As I have told each of my kids I was 14 once also and lived through it. This might surprise you also. Your parents are people.
Your last line told the most about you then you wanted to let on. And made sympathy go to zero. If you have been messing up. then I would be on your case.
Thi slast thing is the most important.
You are not owed respect. You must earn it. And it will take alot of WORK and Patience for you to earn their respect. When you have done what you are supposed to, your parents just might start listening...
2007-09-22 04:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Bob D 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hm... I suppose all parents do that - mine too. It gets irritating, but try to see things from their point of view. In their generation, they didn't talk back, and they did study (which is more than I can say for half the people I know). Just bear with it, or if you have to, reason it out with them quietly. Don't scream, don't shout, don't sound like you're angry, don't attack them. And be reasonable.
2007-09-22 04:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Aerin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety have confidence me they have been there and sometime mothers and fathers forget the way it grow to be starting to be up, yet one component that i will say is that , that's in no way gonna replace... i'm 27 the two considered one of my mothers and fathers nonetheless verify on me like i'm 15, or 12 even... as long as you're Their toddler, its not gonna replace, so get used to it and attempt to sweep off the adverse..... they are mothers and fathers....its their job to make you upset...its all approximately starting to be up....
2016-12-26 22:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents dont like to be wrong, but its important that you stick up for yourself...if you know you are right and you want that respect come right out and say it. i'm sure you are a good kid too, and good luck on keeping those grades up~!
2007-09-22 04:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by puppy love 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one likes to be told that they are wrong -parent or child. Sounds like you and your parents need to work on communication skills. Are you positive that they are wrong or is it just that they dont agree with you? When you mention that they dont want to you to "talk like that" it appears that they feel you are being disrespectful. There are ways to get your point accross and not argue. Talk to your school counselor and try to arrange a meeting where you and your parents can work with them to find ways to talk to and listen to each other.
2007-09-22 04:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by Diane M 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Its about respect
2007-09-22 04:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Presto's Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋