Think I know what your replies will be but happy to hear from all you ladies out there but would also love to hear a guys point of view.
Been chatting with a guy I met on internet for a few weeks now. We tx & speak every day and r meeting for first time Monday.
The other day I was busy and hadn't contacted him so about lunchtime he sent me a tx saying "has the cat got your tongue" and another day he said "do I smell funny".
Tonight I've got my mum coming over for dinner at 6.30pm and she prob won't go until about 11pm. He is working till 7pm and goes to bed at about 9.30pm coz he has to get up early for work tomorrow so yesterday I said to him that prob won't get the chance to talk tomorrow (meaning today) but I said we can tx. Later in the conversation he said we will speak Sunday and I said ok but we can still tx and he replied "well, we'll see, ur the one who can't talk Sat night"
The time is now 4pm on Sat and I've not heard from him. Should I tx or wait to hear from him?
2007-09-22 04:09:48 · 5 answers · asked by sun_smile_yellow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he sounds scary reconsider meeting him cause He sounds a little possesive to me already and you have not even met yet that is scary sorry just my opinion . Have fun and good luck . if he seems creepy or scary on your date just make an excuse and leave early and for gods sake make sure he is not following you home . good luck and stay safe/.
2007-09-22 04:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole relationship sounds kinda iffy. He sounds like bad news if he's trying already to alienate you from your family (I've had that done) Maybe you should text him and tell him the whole story if you've done that already, Refuse to meet him at all and tell him you can still text me but try to wait it out. It's not always safe to meet someone right away after meeting them on the Internet... maybe after 6 months or so in a neutral invironment a cafe,a restauraunt... if he pressures you more and more tell him to forget texting or contacting you I'm sure you really like this guy... but what if some thing awful happens? Whoever texted last should be the first one to text back... play the waiting game
2007-09-22 11:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by don't be a hater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds kind of creepy. I wouldn't keep talking to him. He seems a little possessive and you haven't even met him yet.
2007-09-22 11:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definately call him. i think he is frustrated and a little annoyed because you never have any free time to talk to him like in person. i think he really wants to meet you, set a whole day aside like next week and just cancel all your plans.
2007-09-22 11:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have expressed your problem to him, and i hope it is genuine. If hew really likes you he will defenitely understand your problem and will call u. else he is behaving silly.and immature,.
2007-09-22 11:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by shaj_13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋