SORRY. for the REPOST. i COULD NOT READ THE ANSWERS. it was deleted for no reason.
so a week ago a lot of my friends took me to a prostítute,cuz im vírgin. and they kind of feel sorry for me cuz of that. and when they took me and they paid the money i told the prostítute that i dont want to get STD so let just pretend we did it. and now everybody thinks im not vírgin. and im wondering if i did the right ting? im 18. also i feel so disgusted by prostítutes...am i an idiot>?
PS:and they all did it with that prostítute before
2007-09-22 04:01:57 · 15 answers · asked by yaomnnoi345z y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are the one to be proud.
Now,... you can still save it for someone special,... and not worry about giving them a disease.
good for you!!!
2007-09-22 04:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by solo_yo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admire you for your integrity and values. Congratulations. You are not a LOSER nor an idiot.. you know better. There is nothing wrong if you don't succor to these shallow ways. If they are really your true friends, they would respect you with your decisions, support you and defend you from people who mocks you. They should not think, or see you less than anything. You are a great person.. you will do it when you feel i the is right time, and with the right woman. Pay no attention to these so called friends of yours. Going to a prostitute loosing your virginity doesn't make you MORE of a man.. But standing up for what you believe in is MANLY. A lady or any woman would be lucky to have you as a boyfriend coz you value yourself and you know what you want.. No body wants STD.. and being careful is not bad. Your friends should learn more to be like you. You know when you are ready, and you will do it when you are ready.. YOUR TERMS not theirs.. and if their really your friends they wont feel sorry for you. I feel sorry for them that they do these things..
2007-09-22 04:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Pickles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by no having sex with the prostitute for sure,
and at this point do you really care what your firends think? you are the one who knows has a clean bill of health will now maybe they are all walking around with crabs or even worse AIDS!
You will lose your verginity with the time is right, it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders to still be a virgin at 18 and not to do what you friends are doing. You will hopfully find that lucky person to spend you life with!
2007-09-22 04:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by iamhuntersmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your are an Idiot. Not for not sleeping with the prostitute but for letting your friends even think about taking you threre.
I am answering this question because I want to help you. You should stay pure until your married.This is what God intended.
When you and all your friends are married you will be the only one that has something to offer you wife. Stay strong.I know it is easier said than done but it has been done before.Trust me you wont be sorry.
Good Luck!
2007-09-22 04:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 56 years old and had a similar experience with my first encounter with a pro. In a moment of sobriety I looked at her, looked around the room and made the same decision you did. Smartest thing I've ever not done! Still STD Free!
2007-09-22 04:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not a loser & you shouldn't let people push you into doing thing(s) you don't want to do or don't feel comfortable doing.
I am a strong minded up front kind of person & I would have told my friends NO & that should have been the end of it. If your friends can't respect your feelings about this then they aren't really your friends.
2007-09-22 04:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ggirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude your friends are losers for making you do that, who cares if you havent lost your virginity by 18, you did the right thing and if i were you id feel noble, your friends obviously gave in to the fact that they might be bullied if they were virgins at the age. the fact is you did the right thing and dont let your friends ever try force you into something like that again.
bottom line, youre not a loser.
2007-09-22 04:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad you did that. obviously your not a loser like your other friends. you chose the best thing to do, it was very matture of you and very smart not to lay down to a person that may have who knows how many diseases. Let them catch whatever they want to. i hope you find the right girl (NOT a prostitue) and becareful sometimes friends are not always friends. good luck.
2007-09-22 04:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eww losing your virginity to a prostiture would make you a loser.
Meet someone youa ctually LIKE, date be happy.
Maybe get some new friends?
2007-09-22 04:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by I Think I'm Growing Up! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not an idiot you would be if you went through with it. Just let them think you did it and wait til you think the time is right with someone special. =]
2007-09-22 04:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by dancingbaby124 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU WERE the smart one....you did the right thing by NOT GIVING IN... GOOD FOR YOU
besides do you really want your first time do be like that? I wouldn't. YOU WILL be happy u waited
2007-09-22 04:04:49 · answer #11 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋