I'm a fat guy that's ENORMOUSLY attracted to hot women. How can you get hot women to like you if you're fat??

Question

I'm a heavy guy that need tips on how to get hot women. Any advice appreciated.

Thanks!

Answer 1

Make another aspect so overly attractive that compensates for your physical appearance. Simply, get rich or famous. A poor fat guy has no hope.

Answer 2

What does a HOT woman have to benefit from dating a huge, fat man? I mean, really!! I'm not trying to be mean here but beautiful women are not stupid; they know that YOU are showing them off to all of your friends and co-workers...& strangers, as if to say "Look! Look at what kind of woman "I" can get!!" You're intention is to USE them & that's why you're only attracted 2 them & not smart, kind, or other "types". That's why they tend to date men with money or looks; they know they're being used for their own looks anyway. Then they end up getting dumped because the man never cared about them anyway...only their looks & showing them off. That's why they're interested in rich men, or gorgeous men because they want something out of this, too.

Answer 3

1. Be at least as wealthy as you are fat
2. Be a great person with an excellent personality
3. Realize that just about every guy is ENORMOUSLY attracted to hot women, and that it makes a nice fantasy, but that almost none of them get them (and they aren't always so great once you do). So now you have two choices. Stick with your magazines, videogames, and sitting alone with your buddies at strip clubs, OR recognize that it is fun to look at them, but that having a real woman in your life is a lot better than staring at an unattainable one, and be a human being.

Answer 4

From my experience most women like cuddly bears but if you're too fat its going to turn them off. Its all a matter of degree. Sounds like you should lose a bit of weight both for your love life and for your own health and happiness.

Don't be in a hurry though. The only effective way is through gradual change. Slowly make improvements to your diet (SLOWLY!) and slowly increase your activity level. You will be surprised what a difference it will make to your life.

I was a chubby kid growing up but I did just that (slowly changed my lifestyle) and now I'm more fit, more happy and girls find me attractive.

Of course there's more to finding a satisfying relationship than physical compatability but lets not fool ourselves thats important too.

Answer 5

Accept the fact that your overweight, and woman are not attracted to your physical features. Everytime you go to eat that cupcake think about a women who you really like, and could see yourself being with. Don't stop thinking about her the entire time your eating it. So many times i've went to eat something fattening, but thinking about a girl I like has immediately made me put it down. I was fat for 16 years, now i'm 17, i'm the normal weight for my height, and life has never been better...

Answer 6

You do not mention you're age. If you are a teenager it is not easy, because at that age girls are dealing with peer pressures. If you are an adult and are good to the ladies, and responsible, it will leave more of an impression. Sense of humor is also helpful. You really should make an effort to loose some weight for your own health though.

Answer 7

You know, I never hear guys ask to meet nice or sweet women, or smart women, or poor women. It NEVER fails; they ONLY ask to meet HOT women. I'm a former fashion model & always wondered why I was being bombarded with fat (to use "your" word) men & alot of men that were very unnattractive & only wanted a HOT woman to show off to their friends.

MEN LIKE THIS ARE USERS!!

DO NOT GIVE THIS MAN ANY ADVICE!!!

Answer 8

Hey,
Just know that when you're worried about your weight, women are worried about their weight, height, shoe size, upper lip fuzz, bad hair days, dirt under their nails, and just about everything else that is just fine. From that, take it as is - It doesn't matter what's wrong with you because if you make a women feel beautiful, she'll always want to be with you. Notice how I didn't say sexy. That's another tip - say she's beautiful, not sexy. So when you're feeling self-concious or "not good enough" say something like good to her. That's all. Let me know if it works. Good luck!

Answer 9

From a heavy set to another heavy set...heres whats from my observations seems to work.

Play football.

Play an instrument/ very well(guitar,sax,piano,sing)

Be very tough...(pick fights with rival guys)

Have lots of drugs all teh time..(gets you laid the fastest)....Women love their dopemen regardless of apperence..

or just be rich <_<


also IMO

Being funny/Charming will get you loved like a brother/"omg your my best friend"

If you want attention, wear lots shiny of jewlery.

If you want to know where all the desperate single women are,get a gay friend..

My advice is from teh high school/community college perspective...I dont know how it works for people oler then 21.

Answer 10

looks dont matter. whether your fat or she's hot. you should look for someone based on personality only and if good looks are involved then thats a plus. Also being overweight is unhealthy so maybe you try to lose weight. just be nice to a girl and treat her sweetly and be romantic dont worry about looks.