at me and i dont chat much but, say one liners to her, what could i do to ask her out as there is traffic behind me, sounds corny, but she is nice looking and im not sure if she is being friendly or attracted to me,
What would be a good approach to ask her out? slip my email when getting the toll ticket or is this harrassment. Thanks for the help.
I want to go for it but dont want to be rejected. Thanks
2007-09-22 03:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Don't want to burst your bubble, but my guess is she probably smile at everyone as part of her job.
That being said, you should find out if she's interested. One day on the way through, just say, "Would you be interested in having coffee sometime?" If she sounds interested tell her, "Write down your number when you have a spare moment, then tomorrow when I come through you can give it to me. I'll call you and we can set it up."
2007-09-22 03:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by J-Dawn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one, especially considering, in a situation like that, you only have seconds to 'make your move'. It's also tricky because neither one of you know a thing about the other. For all she knows, you could be a mass murderer. For all you know, she could already be in a relationship, or even married.
To add to that, if she ends up turning you down, what used to be a pleasant few seconds for you every morning might become a few uncomfortable seconds. Considering the fact that there are thousands of people also wanting to get through the tolls, I think your best shot is giving her a simple note in a card complimenting her on her smile and an as innocent as you can make it invitation to get to know her better, and include your email address. With the right wording, even if she's not interested, she'll be flattered.
Good luck. Stranger things have happened to bring two people together.
2007-09-22 03:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by loveblue 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing to do in this situation would be a note of asking her to hang out with you with a phone number and some flowers. Be careful about the color and type of flowers you pick. Different color means different things in terms of relationship. The same rule applies for the flowers too.
You don't know if she has someone on the side already. If she has a ring on then she's off limit, but if she doesn't then the chance of not having that someone is high.
I'd say write something like "Every time I see you, you bring a smile to my face. I would like to get to know more about the person behind the smile. If you want to just hang out and socialize then here's my number. Here's some flowers to brighten your day and to show my appreciation of what you do." You want to write something neutral and nothing to suggest going on a date. Remember that you don't know if she has someone. Also you don't want to make her feel like you're stalking her either. So keep it neutral and simple. I'd say mix and match some flowers i.e., hydrangea, campanula and ivy and do it up in a basket. This type of combination of flowers has a neutral person to person effect and nothing about stalking and romance.
Once you have given her these things just wait and see. She may not call you that night, but give few days to two weeks. During these time period she'll think about the flowers and the note and she'll most likely share the info with her friends to get their reaction. If nothing after two weeks, then I'd say let it go and it wasn't meant to be. Good luck!
2007-09-22 03:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by redhotchillidawg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smiling is probably part of her job so I wouldn't take that as a sign that she is interested. It's not harassment to ask her out but it's hard to say if she is really interested since you don't really know much about her - she may have a boyfriend. So you risk rejection but people always risk rejection when they first ask someone out. If I were you I'd just say to her "Would you like to have dinner sometime? She will either say yes or no - that's it - then you will know. If she says no and you are embarrassed you could always go to another toll collector.
2007-09-22 14:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♣♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say write her a note that says something like, "I really enjoy chatting with you every day and I'd love to take you out sometime." and put your e-mail address.
2007-09-22 08:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She smiles to everybody.
2007-09-22 04:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know if you don't try.Give her your email and if you don't hear from her at least you'll know she isn't interested.
2007-09-23 17:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by Classy Granny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋