I have been seeing my partner for 11 months.
Now he's decided he needs space, he's snappy, cross, arrogant, short-tempered. He works 12 hour days and is an insomniac. He has 4 children and a grandchild-to-be.
He's in a lot of trouble at work (he is owed about £300,000.00)
He's just found out his daughter is pregnant, and he's gone right up his own a** about it - "i'm so proud of her etc"
He's ignoring me. And I feel like I have to use sex and blow jobs to get him to see me.
He has always said he couldn't cope without me, what with all the stress and everything, what if he realises he can?
I can't bear to lose him I just don't know what to do. Please help.
2007-09-22 02:53:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you canot live your life when all you do is try and please your man,
if he really does mean he cant cope without you let him have a taste of it...go on a weekend break or maybe longer...
you cant have an excuse such as sex to keep your partner, it terible! i understand you dont want to lose him but seriously if he lets you down and all he does is take since when have you become a personal slave for his want?
let yourself off in some ocasions, but try new stuff like going away or calming him down in a different way, do not use sex as an answer or hell just abuse you and wil become used ot it that when ever he wants it he gets it you cant let im walk over you like this!
think of your true needs from him and think of what you actually get...is it worth the trouble?
2007-09-22 03:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First there are a few factors that need to be answered. 1. How long ago did her husband die? 2. How long have you two been together? 3. Does the entire family treat you like this or is just her? Aside from that, I think you should sit down and talk to her about it. Let her know how you feel when this happens. Yes a very tragic thing has happened to her but it is not fair to push you away during the anniversary of his death. Has she ever considered counseling. She might find it helpful to work through this and eventually bring you into some sessions.
2016-05-20 23:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give him sex just so he will see you thene u need to get away from this guy cause what happens if he get's out of doubt and all this other stuff , judging by his character if he was going out with you he would be taking sex from you and he also would be seeing another girl
He'd use you basicly
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2007-09-22 04:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him unless you want to. Try other things to help relax him, like massages, or other things. Never use sex as an excuse to keep someone around.
2007-09-22 02:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Janet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he sounds like a real catch.
2007-09-22 03:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by Iknowthisone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he does not love you and all you are to him is a sexual release, he WILL leave you... you should get some self-respect, and find a way out of that relationship!
2007-09-22 03:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with miss madison.
2007-09-22 03:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want him? And if you want him to, will he change for the better?
2007-09-22 03:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by magnet4trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋