i feel like guys r turned off by the fact that when they make sexual jokes, i dont get them. they always have to be explained to me. i always feel so stupid. plz help.
2007-09-22 02:10:50 · 33 answers · asked by shadows9867 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way, im 17 yrs old and very sheltered. its not a charade in any way.
2007-09-22 06:53:18 · update #1
no, believe me that is your most valuable commodity right now. Just don't be hasty in who you give it too. The time will come and make sure you won't regret it later
2007-09-22 02:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ancient Warrior DogueDe Bordeaux 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are putting yourself out their to receive jokes and the rude sexual jokes, why tell anyone? Is it really their business if your a virgin or not? Stop telling people your a virgin and the jokes will stop. And dont pat yourself on the back for thinking all the guys are attracted to you cause your a virgin, they are only attracted to you cause you are a female, it wouldnt matter either way, most young guys are dogs, and they have one thing on their mind and I think you know what that is? And you know why you feel so stupied? Its cause your acting this way! I know you are smarter than your appearing to be, you are playing the ole Im so inexperienced and naive game, Im just a little virgin girl! Stop right now! Ive seen this before, you think guys are turned on by your act and you are only making it worse on yourself, basically you leave yourself wide open for the comments, and I think you like it, its a form of attention, and your gonna take it anyway you can get it, so stop teasing the boys and grow up a bit, I dont mean to come off rude, but the little virgin game needs to stop.
2007-09-22 02:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets face a real fact, yes its because your a virgin, and that's not a bad thing at all. But to a guy and not all of them, they feel that you being a virgin that they will never have the chance to have sex with you, it would take a lot more time then what they want to take. I'm hopeful that you will meet that special guy who will care for you and not want to take from you, stand firm and stay a virgin,do not be fooled by words OK?
2007-09-29 21:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Hopeful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that being a virgin is a great thing. Im not of course, but I think that it is so tasteful to be a virgin, and not be one of those girls that have been around the block 6 times. Stay a virgin until you find the right person. If guys find it a turnoff, then they arent worth looking twice at. Who cares if you dont get their nasty jokes. Its a good thing!!!
2007-09-22 02:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Little Deer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They love the fact your a virgin.
They probably just think its really annoying how you don't understand the jokes.
I'm a virgin and I'm cracking sexual jokes and laughing at sexual jokes all the time.
You just need to know stuff to get the jokes, which you obviously don't.
2007-09-22 02:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Revenge 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. odds are they are virgins too who just talk the talk. After they explain some of the jokes, you will pick up on the idea of other jokes. They all basically have the same theme. Keep your innocense. YOu only get to lose them once and to understand dumb jokes is no reason to take the plunge so to speak
2007-09-30 01:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Media Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proud of your choice to stay a virgin. It is so much easier to give into peer pressure. And they are just as attracted to you as other girls they just have one thing on their minds and your what is called a "low chance of success target" But why would you want to do anything with a guy who was only interested in that in the first place?
2007-09-29 19:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by chadray224 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im also a virgin of 17 years old and my boyfriend loves me, it's been almost 2 years that we are together and im still a virgin, i don't think that guys are ONLY thinking of sex when they see a girl.
in my opinion it has nothing to do that you are a virgin with not understanding the sex jokes.
boys won't stop looking to a girl bcs she is a virgin, in fact, some of them find it hot!
2007-09-29 17:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
GOOD FOR YOU.
How old are you btw??
Thats good your a virgin and forget those guys,who cares what they think!?!?!?!
Well apprently you do...
Don't worry about them,When your ready to have sex,joke about sex,you will understand more when your older...
In my school you learn about sex at least at 5th grade.
Well now im 15 and guys can't help it when they talk about sex and make jokes all the time.
If you dont get what they are saying than just ignore them.
Because all the boys talk about it.
Look up your questions on google.
You can't expect people on here to be able to answer this question.
2007-09-22 02:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nahhhhhhhh...im a virgin...nd trust me its not a turn off ...and i think its just you too innocent for those sexual jokes ...to be honest they cant tell that your not a virgin cuz you dont get those jokes ...just go to www.jokes.com and read sum sexual funny jokes they are funny so if someone says one you'll get it or try gettin a joke off there and using it...THey are funny every1 will laugh but u got to pic a good one!
Good Luck
~helpful lil me~
Corrine
2007-09-22 02:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Corrine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Were always looking for reasons why every human of the opposite gender are ot crawling all over us, and when it does happen you wonder why people just cant get to know you and love you for you. Just be happy with yourself, and be confident in your decisions.
2007-09-22 02:16:39 · answer #11 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋