I am 26 and I meet a guy through a friends in a party. We hit it off and kissed. He invited me to his place but I did not want to have sex on the first night, so I rejected him. He did not talk to me since then in other parties. Why is that so? Guys, can you tell me what you usually do if you was him?
2007-09-22 01:47:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Count yourself wise for making the right choice. He didn't talk to you since may be because he is guilty and ashamed for the ulterior motives. If not, he just want to play cool by not talking or expressing himself fearing that you might be either angry with him or reject him again, otherwise, waiting for you to make the first move as a signal of befriending him again. As for me, I will prove myself serious to the person I wish to commit to and continue to communicate with her as usual. One time rejection doesn't mean end of relation right? If he still insist by not talking to you the next time, forget it because life still go on even with or without him. Furthermore there are other guys out there to befriend.. And the relationship has only just started. SO, move on girl.
2007-09-22 02:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by boonji86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a loser he wanted nothing else from you, find a real man someone who will respect you. you did the right thing not having sex on the first night now you know what a loser he is. good luck finding a new man.
2007-09-22 08:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems he was just looking for a good time and not a relationship or anything. When you turned him down i suppose he figured that you werent just looking for a one night stand. Im not saying you did anything wrong please dont think that. Im just saying thats a possible theory
2007-09-22 08:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems to me he was just looking to get into ur pants. Don't waste ur time with him. Be careful btw, you made a good choice by not going over to his place.
2007-09-22 08:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by mephisto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt love you. he just wants to get into your pants. isnt that obvious?
2007-09-22 10:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by destiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an idiot - he wasn't interested in you as a person -
you are better off!
2007-09-22 08:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋