Having a hard time coping with my fathers death help!!!!!!!!!?

Question

My father died August 25 one month before his 59 birthday. How come doctors didn't treat my fathers case seriously? In a month he gained 30lbs had hard time breathing, his diabetes shot up quite high all of a sudden and had phemona.He was rushed hospital they drained liquid from abdomen, had hard time with breathing they put a oxegen mask on him to help him breath, they controlled his diabetes and then sent him home a week later. Still had trouble breathing gained more water, they told him to double then triple his water pills. A week at we had to rush him to the hospital the second time. He was complaining he was so tired went unconcious they performed surgery to take away more water from his heart. Aparently test showed no water origionally then they took more tests and it showed the water. He didn't make it through the surgery his heart stoped. After only 2 hours in the hosptial he passed away. Why did they send him home? I wonder if he would of been saved if they monitered himlonge

Answer 1

Homeopathic Remedies for Anxiety / Panic Attacks / Stress / Depression(Bereavment) / Mood Swings :-

ANXIETY / PANIC ATTACKS & STRESS :-

Sudden with restlessness and fear of death, Panic Attacks, Aconite 30X or 200X,1/2 hourly (3 Doses)

Prolonged with periodic and panic attacks Arsenic Alb.200X, 4 hourly (3 Doses)

With fainting spells; profuse sweating; worse in the morning Sulphur 30X or 200X 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Makes patient walk fast; due to anticipation Argentum Nit 200X, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Worse lying in bed and closing the eyes Carbo Veg 30X or 200X, 4 hourly (6 Doses)

Anxiety aggravated by upward or downward motion; going in an elevator; worse till 11 P.M, Borax 200X or 1M, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxious about business even when seriously ill Bryonia Alba 200X 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Full of apprehensions in the evening Causticum 200X, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxiety and fears in the evening with restlessness and palpitation Calcarea Carb.200X or 1M, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxiety worse while lying still. Sad music ameliorates the complaints Manganum Acet 200X 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxiety due to fright, fear,exciting news; stage fright; worse while appearing for examination or interview etc Gelsemium 30X or 200X 3 hourly (6 Doses)

Mood Swings, Anxiety due to grief or shock in the subconscious mind Ignatia 200X or 1M, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxiety; better after eating Anacardium Or 30X, 4 hourly.

DEPRESSION & GRIEF(Bereavement) :-

Severe shock due to sudden death of loved ones; restlessness, anxiety and fear Aconite 200X. 10 min (3 Doses)

Prolonged mournings; cannot overcome the loss of loved ones and/or Mood Swings. Ignatia 1M or 10M, 6 hourly (3 Doses)

When the grief is in the conscious mind; patient weeps; does not like sympathy Natrum Mur.200X or 1M, 6 hourly (3 Doses)

For chronic grief and indignation Staphysagria 200X or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)

Depression with suicidal thoughts feeling of worthlessness, Aurum Met 30X, three times a day half hour before meals.


Take the remedy which is similar to your symptoms. No side effects or complications if taken as directed, please do not exceed the given dosage and under any circumstances do not try to mix any remedies and avoid Chocolates, Mints, Coffee, Red Meat, Alcoholic and Carbonated drinks, Spicy Rich Food while taking any Homeopathic remedies, and keep the medicines away from direct sunlight, heat strong smells and perfumes and do not store them in the fridge.
Curing without any side effects or Complications Thats the Beauty of Homeopathic Medicine (Cures Par Excellence)

Take Care and God Bless you.

Answer 2

I'm very sorry about your loss to yourself and your family.

I lost my Father-in-Law (who was like a Father to me) in late May this year. We all miss him terribly. He was also kinda young (only 55). He had a massive stroke and died right there at work. It was not expected at all. It was traumatic for all of us. So, I completely understand your sadness.

I also can sympathize with your frustration about the medical care (term I am using loosely in your case). I'm not a doctor, but from what you described, telling him to take triple his water pills was clearly irresponsible medicine.

If you can afford it, maybe you can go see a personal injury lawyer. You may have a case to sue. I know it won't bring your Father back, but it may help with costs involved after the fact.

In the meantime, keeping talking and expressing your emotions about this. You need to purge these negative feelings, you don't want to carry this for too long. Try your best to remember all the good times you had with your Father, forgive him for things if you need to. Make a scrapebook about him, write a poem or something.

Things seem very hard now I know. Things do get better. You ALWAYS will miss him, but the sharp pains you feel now will fade over time. But, you will never stop loving him, or forget about him. There will always be an aching though. This is what I feel these days.

Give yourself some time. You will need at least a year to adapt to his not being there. Going through all the major celebrations and holidays for the next while will be difficult. But you have every right to be angry, sad. You can cry or even scream. Just be constructive about it. If it lasts past a year, or begins to create problems in your life (like missing too much school/work) then go see a grief counsellor.

Do not, as the person above, take drugs. You are going through something that is part of life. All of us will go through this at one time or another. It is part of being in this world.

It's okay to go a little crazy and feel confused for a time. But you will have to get back up on your feet again. I'm sure your Father would of want you to be happy again.

Take care of yourself and your family.

Answer 3

ahhhh im really sorry about your dad thats horrible an in my opinon they screwed up big time!!!!!!! your dad had chf which is very easily diagnosed i can pin it down by lung sounds and the cough thats just horrible what a bunch of idiots i work with the elderly. i just cant even imagine how you feel my dad is so special to me if i were you i would contact the admimistrater of the hospital and have him or her review the charts then i would get an attorney that is just bull crap.

Answer 4

First of all, I want to say that I am so sorry for your loss.

A lot of times, when someone dies, we try to find someone to blame. Maybe it was the hospital's fault, but maybe it wasn't. You may never know.

Even if you can blame someone for his death, it doesn't change anything. The anger you keep inside will only make it harder for you to deal with your loss. I know this must be hard to hear, but try to let it go. It no longer matters who is to blame. What's done is done, and putting blame out there is only going to upset you. It won't change anything.

Consider talking about this with close friends or your family members. Let them know how you feel. Don't keep your emotions inside. Even if you have to post them in a blog or something, get them out. Feelings that are kept inside can cause you all kinds of problems, starting with your emotions and possibly ending with your health.

Because I have not dealt with such a close loss myself, it is hard for me to imagine the pain you are going through. I do know, however, that a build up of pain and anger inside can only make things worse. True healing can only be found in the arms of Jesus. I'm not going to give you some "religious babble" about what I believe, because you may not want to hear it. I just know that Jesus has brought me through many hard times in my life.

Answer 5

First of all accept my heartfelt feeling on the sad demise of your father. May his soul rest in eternal peace.
The reason was that your father was having a CRF AND CCF. the doctors should have placed him on ACS PROTOCOL instead of sending him home. They should have admitted in intensive care, GROSS NEGLIGENCE ON PART OF DOCTOR AND HOSPITAL.