hi i am having a party but when i invite people i dont want the people who were not invited to feel bad or left out. What should i do??
2007-09-17 11:07:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Food & Drink ➔ Entertaining
mmm you can always make a private invitation ... by phone or actually set them aside .... i mean there are going to be people who are going to find out and they are going to feel bad... but really, what can you do? nothing.... you have to be a little selfish and i know its gonna sound bad but you cant please everyone and more when you all ready know who do you want to invite who you dont.... and beside, think about it... maybe if one of them was making a party and they didnt want to invite you because you are not reall their friend.... they would do the same thing you are doing and probably not even care about your feelins.
Thats nice that you dont want to hurt someone but as i said before you cant please everyone =0)
besides..... this is for you to have fun!!
2007-09-17 18:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell the people on the phone and make sure they dont tell anyone. But also make sure that they dont lie to anyone like if someone asks what they are doing friday night and thats the day of your party they shouldnt lie to them. Just have them say its not a big deal. and make sure wen ur inviting the people say its a little get together or like my mom didnt let me have a big bday this year. just dont lie to people because that will cause bigger problems
2007-09-17 11:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by h0la 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite those people or don't worry about how they might feel.
2007-09-17 11:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Peace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them personally in private
2007-09-17 11:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by traveling lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is part of growing up. You can't please everyone. There will be hurt feelings, no matter what you do.There is no way to soften the message to you.
2007-09-17 23:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by Pat C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 steps......hi to whoever, join in wit everybody, and have a good da*n time.....PARTY LIKE A ROCKSTAR
2007-09-17 11:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by charie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋