i live with my bf in ballarat australia, and my parents live in another state. i really miss them and i want to live with them. i am 18 and lonely.. i love my boyfriend dearly. he isnt keeping me from seeing them, its just i cant visit them all the time because where i live, i cant decide if i should leave and go live with them or stay with him? ive asked him if he would move there with me, but he doesnt know if he would like it!! what do i do? i really want to be in sydney with my family, but my bf is keeping me here! please help me.. im sorry if its really hard to understand! im so confused!
2007-09-08 19:55:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
At 18, parents should be on more focus. I think 20 or more is the decisive age for your life mate. Talk to your bf. If he is the right one for you, he will wait for even 100 years for you.
2007-09-08 20:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think you're way to young to go off living alone with your boyfriend. :) You should go back to your parent's house and enjoy their company. You can sit down with the bf and figure out some solutions together. Like maybe spending half the year with your parents and half with him. Or alternate weekends or months. I don't know what kind of job you have, but there are some people that actually relocate twice a year (they have a summer job in one area and a winter job in another). He should be supportive of you no matter what... whether that means moving with you or having a quasi-long distance relationship. Good luck!
2007-09-09 03:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cochy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go with the family. If he loves you alot then he will move with you. Sound like you need more friends in you life. Sydney's the place to be. Your young and you have lots to do. Love can come latter.
Move young lady.
2007-09-09 03:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Onin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why the heck are you living with your boyfriend?
Why are you removing all reason for him to marry you by giving him all the benefits of marriage without the title?
Give him the ultimatum, and if he will not get off dead-center and marry you, then go back to live with your parents.
Make him do right by you!
If he misses you, he can bloody well look for a job nearer to where your parents and you are.
2007-09-09 03:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to follow your heart. Family is VERY important and will always be around, so maybe it is time to go home to them. If your bf is super dedicated to making this work, then maybe he wouldnt mind either long distance relationship, or moving there with you.
Bottom line, do what makes you happy, and follow what your heart and gut is telling you to do!
Good Luck, I hope you can get it all sorted.
2007-09-09 03:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by jrcosmogirl333 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋