I'm in high school and had been going out with my boyfriend for three months. He wasn't allowed to date because of his really conservative parents. Anyhow, he broke up with me about a month ago because he really wanted to follow his parents wishes and felt really guilty. When he broke up with me, he said he wished the relationship would continue but he just felt too guilty keeping it a secret. He'll be allowed to date in about a month, but I don't know if he still likes me. He'd liked me for three years before we went out. Does it sounds like I could get him back?
2007-09-08 18:02:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think so...
If he liked you that much, he wouldn't care about what his parents think. He would do much more than just say "oh sorry, looks like my parents don't approve of me dating"...
Guys are simple. They like to get what they want, period.
If he's so into you, then he'd do everything to convince his parents to allow him dating.
2007-09-08 18:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by sunny2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there is a chance you could rekindle your relationship. I think the best idea is to just ask him when he is able to date if he's still interested, then you won't spend all your time wondering...and if he wants to move on and find someone new you won't be stuck waiting around for him to take you back.
2007-09-08 18:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by greyskymourning82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, i've been through this kinda situation before just that i ended it and felt guilty..anyway just wat i did was if he just wanted to remain friends instead of dating again then i just had to let it be that way b/c if u really like the guy u would just do watever he would rather do b/c u loved and cared about him so much. and finally thats wat i did and even though i luved him and wanted to date him so badly i just remained friends and it worked out b/c now we are together and i luv it! Good luck!
2007-09-08 18:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kimzi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him make the first step, otherwise you look desperate. In any case, move on ... this is just a flash in your life. Trust me, there will be plenty of other guys without these obstacles.
2007-09-08 18:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by jelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's only way to find out...ask him! if he's liked you for 3 years, then he'll probably continue to like you since you guys didnt break up over something bad.
2007-09-08 18:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by Victor C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste ur time who follows his parents so much.he is young ,ur young so u guys have right to enjoy ur life.but this is not the right guy to enjoy with.maybe his parents r right coz they have a point if u guys are under 18.
2007-09-08 18:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young...I think you should move on and concentrate on your studies, there are plenty of guys out there... It's only high school...
2007-09-08 18:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by lissette2025 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. But keep in mind, that regardless of wether or not he does, the real question is can he date?
2007-09-08 18:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound him out...go a date and u should be able get answer from his reaction towards u
2007-09-08 18:11:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is true love it will survive a month
2007-09-08 18:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by Doc Biz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋