My boyfriend came over one night and every has been really great, a few arguements but im sitting major exams at the moment so thats understandarble... Out of the blue he tells me that he thinks we cant go anywhere from here and things are different, that his heart tells him he loves me, but his head says it wont work. After pleading for hours he left me..... Today he has messaged me saying that that was the biggest mistake he ever made and he misses me and asked to see me. He came over with flowers and chocolates and we spoke about it. He told me that he just felt really freaked out, we were talking about moving in etc and he feels a bit freaked out, he is only 21. He says he loves me and cant be without me, but I still feel like he doesn't want me, WHAT DO I DO!? Thank you,
Ash
2007-09-08 17:54:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are his reasons for wanting to break up with you? Are they rational or are they silly?
Based on what you've posted, it sounds to me like he wants to be with you but he's just not ready to move in together. And if he's not ready then you shouldn't move in together just now. Continue dating and see where things go from there. Let him know that you don't need to live with him but that you would like to continue seeing him, that should take a lot of pressure off of him.
You have time to wait this out and figure out if he is just a little commitment-phobic or if he's just stinging you along until "someone better comes along".
2007-09-08 18:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes too indecisive for me.I would forget that he ever existed. I would not give it a second thought. New boyfriend or not. He would be HISTORY.
2007-09-08 18:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he was just over thinking the whole situation and got really nervous. i think u should take him back unless u have no feelings for him
2007-09-08 18:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Papi Chulo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Admittedly he shouldn't have done that, but unless you have a new bf, give him another chance.
2007-09-08 17:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, take him back. he probably just had a bad day or something.
2007-09-08 18:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by ran 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋