Guys and girls, let me know...
I was introduced to a guy by a mutual friend a couple of weeks ago. Since then, we've been texting and calling each other daily and just.. with a little flirting involved I guess.
I think I have feelings for him but I know he has a girlfriend already...
He is the one who always initiates the texts and he calls me... I don't call him often.
Any suggestions? Thanks!!
2007-09-08 17:52:16 · 36 answers · asked by sunny2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it is not ok.
You are the woman so you should be the one controlling the situation. Regardless if he is the one initiating the moves, you should not make him feel that you like what he is doing. Replying to his text messages, answering his calls and flirting back is a sign that you are tolerating his actions. How can he respect you? And what would you feel if you're the girlfriend? I don't think you would want any girl took advantage of your guy's weakness.
There is always Karma and it works overtime.
2007-09-08 17:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is not alright. Even if you don't like this girl it is not okay to flirt with a taken boy. Think of this: you are dating this boy after he breaks up with the other girl for you, then you find out hes calling and texting flirtatious messages to a new girl. How would you feel? If you still would like to be friends with this boy, and i mean CASUAL friends, try saying to him "Bobby, i really like you but the flirting is not okay anymore. Iv realized that it would really hurt your girlfriends feelings if she found out that i was flirting with you. Can we still be friends?"
2007-09-08 18:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no. Not ok. Would you be ok with your boyfriend doing it? I'm sure the answer is no. It's fine to be friends with someone in a relationship, but flirty texts and daily calls are crossing a line. Watch out or you'll end up getting played.
2007-09-08 17:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by Little Girl Blue 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is textin you N you kno he has a girlfriend and your texting him back and your still having feelings for him you must not care about his girlfriend so i say you do what ever you want with him and im also a teen dont listen to all these 40 year olds on here with there old school advice he deff isnt gonna marry this girl so do what you want.
2007-09-08 18:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by springs2988 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it kind of sounds like his relationship with this other girl is not rock solid and he is still looking.
I would ask him point blank, hey don't you have a girlfriend?
And if it is yes, then ask, well wouldn't it bug her that you are talking to me everyday??
Always put you feet in the other parties shoes, IE; would you want your BF texting and calling another girl, heck no.
So be kind to this person and don't act on this relationship unless she is out of the picture.
Talk to him!
2007-09-08 17:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he has a girlfriend and u guys r flirting that kind a makes both of u sluty. just think about it like this would it be ok if ur boyfriend was flirting with another girl.
2007-09-08 18:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well , you' ve both already stepped over the line .
You are horning-in on another woman' s man and he' s cheating on his girl-friend with you . Just think how the two of you are leading this " other woman " towards a devastated broken-heart .
Shame on you !
Just remember .... WHAT GOES AROUND , COMES AROUND !
2007-09-08 18:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by Bright Bulb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then he is bieng a jerk 2 his gf. But if he flirts with u it nust mean he likes u just keep the flirting going on. But first talk 2 him about this and about him having a gf already!!
GOOD LUCK:)
2007-09-08 18:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think of this: would u like ur boyfriend to be flirtin with another girl? i personally wont. And that guy is a jerk, is not worth it, because if he does that to the other girl, wot make u think he wont do it to you, if you guys get together in the future?
2007-09-08 18:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Blue 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I see that most people are saying no. But, YES, it is ok. If you or he was married I would say no. But the years of dating are for meeting different people. Keep answering and calling him. If you are interested in him, up the tempo of the relationship. He may not be happy in his relationship. Maybe it is time for you and he to have a relationship. Good Luck and enjoy your life.
2007-09-08 18:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋