I am at a business school. I am pretty and smart, a lot of guys pursuing me. Some guys already have significant another some where else. Some guys are sleeping with another girl in the same program. Finally, Some guys are unattached, and I happen to like them too, but they cannot take any disappointment. If I don't respond to their advance right away, though I have flirted with them a lot, they would go for easy girls for sex. These things happen over and over again, I don't what to do any more. Should I just sleep with them too? And when they ask me if I am interested, though I have concern, I still just say yes? That is the way to keep a guy and hopefully to have a real relationship? I thought people should be friends first before become involved, now it seems easy girls get all the guys, somebody like me will end up alone.
2007-09-08 17:45:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easy girls get the STDs.My wife and I were friends for a year before we went out. Then we dated for a year. We were not physically involved until after we were dating. We developed a friendship that turned to love and a life long commitment. Trust me, if sex is what a relationship is based on one person will eventually get bored with the other or see someone he wants more and that is it. Everyone gets older and less attractive. Boobs sag. Bellies bulge. Wrinkles develope. What will you have then if everything is based on sexual attraction. My wife is gorgeous and sex is great. Our relationship is firmly built on love that is grounded in friendship and the sex is the icing on a very sweet cake. My wife is my best friend and I m hers.
2007-09-08 20:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, I have yet to meet the man who will turn down a naked woman in his bed.
Don't sleep with anyone you don't want to sleep with. If they dump you because you won't sleep with them right away, then they just told you that all they want from you is sex and that they aren't interested in you.
Don't play games. If you are interested in a guy, then tell him. Also let him know that you like to wait and get to know someone before you have sex. The more honest you are with men, the more likely you'll find someone worthy of you.
2007-09-09 00:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The way for a lady like you to keep a guy, is to just say yes, to one guy. Yes, some times easy girls get the guys. But are you saying, you're not easy? By saying yes, you are giving the guys the impression, that you are an easy catch. .
2007-09-09 00:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋