My mom just visited, I didn't even get to see her for ten minutes. She was crying and telling me how her stupid boyfriend threw her cat out the window of the car because they got in a fight, that bastard! Now she has no where to go, she does not live with me..My dad is like satan and wont let her into this house. No one understands what I'm going through right now, I am so sad.
I have a lot of family problems, too.
I just miss my mom the most because she's the only one that cares enough to listen to me. I don't know what to do anymore..
How can I through this without killing myself?..
2007-09-08 17:28:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How would killing yourself solve your problems? You can get through this. It hurts to see your Mom upset. I understand that. Your Mom has to dump the boyfriend. Anyone who is that cruel to a helpless animal is not a healthy person to have in her life. I'm guessing she lives with her boyfriend. She probably has a friend or relative she can stay with tonight and things will have calmed down by morning. The bottom line, though, is she has to live her own life. You can't live it for her. Getting upset won't help her. Your Mom will be OK for tonight. Talk to her tomorrow to see how she is and stay in touch with her. I know you miss her and that's a hard thing to deal with. On Monday, talk to a guidance counselor at school. Tell them about your family problems and ask them if they can help you figure some things out. They should be able to help you with some of your concerns. Hang in there, though. Things always seem worse than they really are. There are always solutions. We just have to stay strong enough to find them. You are stronger than you know. There are a lot of caring people on this site. If you can't find anyone to talk to we're here for you.
2007-09-08 17:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom needs to hole up in a abused women's shelter, get some counseling and make a whole new plan... minus the @ssholes. She obviously has a history of hanging around these creeps, and she needs to break that habit. Other than telling her that, plus telling her you love her, there isn't much more you can do.
For now, I would suggest you keep your head down and try to stay out of the conflicts. When your mother gets her stuff together, you can choose who to go live with.
You only have a few more years before you are 18, so make the best of them. Study hard, get into some good extracurricular activities or a job (any legitimate way to stay out of the house without getting in trouble), see if you can get some scholarships or grants, and get into college... preferably one in a different town.
2007-09-09 00:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call Girls and Boys Town for immediate help
1-800-448-3000.
Then get some counseling through school.
God bless
2007-09-09 00:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by autimom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that I can tell you is,Trust me, it's going to get better Boo.Just trust in God,and everything will work out fotr u! But what ever u do ,don't kill yourself!
2007-09-09 00:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋