k, well, recently this girl i didnt really "like" came up to me at our football game and started to wipe my shoulder, even when i figured nothing was there, but, people said that she just wanted to touch me and tell me that "I like you"...well, i thought about it and a couple nights ago i had a dream, and she was in it....and in my dream i always had this book that i read and she knew that so she wrote a note saying that she liked me and wanted to go out with me.......and well, today i saw her and it wasnt like she really noticed me, i mean she did, but she never stopped and talked to me or anything....note she was with a couple of her friends and my school is big so there was a lot of people too...but, i dont really know if i have a chance at her, or what my next step should be to try to get to know her or to get her to get to know me..can you help me??. Tell me also what my next move should be, not too fast though...i like long answers!!THANKS!!
2007-09-08 17:17:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say hi and smile at her in the hallways, see her reaction.
Just a Glance- sorry, she doesn't care
A smile - Just Friends
A smile and a wave- Theres potential.
A Hi and a big smile- She probably likes you.
Also, see if she repeatedly glances at you during class/hanging out. If so, she probably likes you.
If you think there's potential, try flirting with her a little bit, see her reaction then.
Answer my question pleasE?!
2007-09-08 17:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by cambrexia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how did you react when she did that? Were you rude to her? Did you talk to her? If you didn't say anything to her, then she probably thought you didn't like her, and that's why she probably didn't stop to talk to you when you saw her today. Sounds like she tried to make the first move, but it got kinda awkward...
Next time you see her, and she's looking at you, smile at her. If she smiles back, that's a good sign. Go up to her and ask her if she wants to go out sometime, or if you have mutual friends, ask her if she wants to come hang out with the group of you. (That way it won't be sooo awkward this time). If you get the chance to hang out with her outside of school, you'll be able to tell if she likes you or not.
If she ignores you..move on. If she's really flirtacious, and talks to you alot, then you got her.
2007-09-09 00:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Miss V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, forget about your dreams..Get real.
She may or may NOT have wiped your shoulder to just "touch you".
Go very slow, say hi to her and MOVE ON. Don't stay there and wait for a response. If she catches that you're beginning to hang on her, she's going to run.
A slight wave or nod in the hall is just fine but don't stand there like an idiot and wait for her to come onto you.
If you have any shot at all, you'll get it from her pursuing you, NOT you pursuing her...........But, you have to make yourself available. Be cool, say Hi and go! But be sure she is aware that you are around.
Patience is the key here if you're going to have any chance............AND, forget those dreams, that's nutso, whacko stuff that you should keep to yourself.
2007-09-09 00:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Carl R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my advice, get to know her. It's hard to tell right know if she likes you or not. Trust me, she will respect you more if act more like a friend to her at first rather than just jumping right in and asking her out. She will think that you're a ton more respectfull of her as opposed to the Jerks out there that only want girls for their body.
2007-09-09 00:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be presentable: make an effort to see her everyday, at the cafeteria, school ground, library, anywhere you can think of she's hanging out, not necessarily trying to make conversation but just to make her felt your presence, so she can get to used seeing you
be friendly: approach and greet her, a little hi and hello ... a little how's your day, how's your class that sort of things. make friends with her friends also a way for you to get know her habits, likes and dislikes.
be generous: offer your helping hand doing her school projects, assignments. encourage and cheer her over school plays and presentation. bring her snack over long hours of practice. participate in their group study.
be funny: have a sense of humor, crack jokes from time to time in short to be so oh boring
be creative: since you've been already talking to her in group and doing group dating, make a chance to talk her alone, a movie date, lunch date etc.... if she turned you down, asked her again.
over the course of your interaction with her and her friends, you would know if she's interested with you or not.
^_^
2007-09-09 00:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she already did her part by showing u thats shes interested in u so u need to go up to her and say hi ect. If she answers in a good way then u show ask her out on a date n go from there
2007-09-09 00:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Papi Chulo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay write a note to her and put it in her locker or in one of her books {LOL} and in the note ask her to out
2007-09-09 00:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by Bubblez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Partner...she asked you first. Respond!! You didn;t mention if you liked her. COMMUNICATION~~~!!
2007-09-09 00:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by demilspencer@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋