... I was on MySpace at the same time as a girl on my friend's list? This is what happened: I was taking a shower when I heard my phone chiming to indicate that I had messages. I figured I would just answer the messages when I got out of the shower. Then I heard my phone ring two seperate times. Once I got out of the shower, I checked my phone and saw that my girlfriend had tried to text me. Out of nowhere she was asking me if I was busy talking to this girl on my friend's list. When I hadn't been able to answer, she said, "So it's true then... Ok" So I called her back and asked her what she was talking about. She said, "You know just what the hell I'm talking about.", and hung up on me. When I tried to call back, she would not answer. Finally I drove to her house and asked her if she was serious. She said yes. She had noticed that this girl on my friend's list who had been "in a relationship" was now single. She also said that it was too much of a coincidence that we were both online.
2007-09-08 17:14:10 · 41 answers · asked by Treblacram 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your girlfriend has problems.
2007-09-08 17:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by sir campo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not justified to accuse you - she's jumping to conclusions. Man, she can't NOT have guy friends. Even if you guys were talking to each other, what could you guys be talking about? Go back to her and ask her why she doesn't trust you and explain that you wouldn't do something like that to her... next time though, to prevent this from happening, sign off of myspace if you're not there.
2007-09-08 17:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her. Tell her straight up what happened, smile, give her a hug (in confidence). She just wants to know you care about her. Don't fall for the little games. If you are being truthful then don't look guilty. Be confident when you are being truthful. Be understanding that this is just an emotional response for attention, and she just wants to know you care. Leave it at that. Smile, and feel good that she likes you. Don't go crazy trying to please her, jump at each accusation, or beg that you are telling the truth. This isn't manly and just makes you look guilty. If you are person of truth and honesty then hold up to your values. If she can't handle your truthfulness then she has other issues. You may need to give her a "timeout" for awhile. When she comes to her senses she will learn that she cannot control you by her jealousy.
2007-09-08 17:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woah! Looks like someone has jealousy issues. As long as you truley aren't cheating on your girlfriend with your myspace friend. Tell her to get over it, and that you don't take your phone into the shower with you.
Have a Happy-Go-Lucky Evening,
Ellen
2007-09-08 17:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your girlfriend is being insecure. stupid myspace. tons of people are on at the same time...390573107508315 use it everyday. talk to her and ask her where shes coming from. be sure to ask her how she would feel if you did the same to her. also mention that you care about her and that you wouldnt do such a thing (which i hope you wouldnt ever). besides, people break up and get together so fast nowadays. talk to her when you both are calm and reassure one another if you two plan on being committed that its stupid and that either of u should worry if you care about one another. good luck!
2007-09-08 17:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by cathyehhh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's lame. She must be either VERY insecure or you must have a way of making her feel like she's not that important to you. But from what you wrote, she seems very insecure with herself. You could always delete the girl off your Myspace...If she means a lot to you, I wish you the best at making her see how dumb she's acting.
2007-09-08 17:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by Answer Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully not. If u just explain to her everything.. and say that if u werent in the shower u would have answered her back the first time Good luck
2007-09-08 17:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is very suspicious and lacks confidence. Mere chatting on net doesn't yield anything. She knows it but insisting on her thinking and treating it as a serious offense. You should try to convince her again if you want to continue,but you may have many problems in future with such a kind of person.
2007-09-08 17:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by jags30in 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds crazy, ur better off not dating a girl who accuses u of being online at the same time with another girl. Girls like this will drag your life down try to avoid
2007-09-08 17:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by kohji k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but this is an easy question. The key to any relationship is trust. if your girlfriend doesn't trust and just assume that you are cheating on her then maybe you both need to reflect on your relationship.
2007-09-08 17:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by Miss T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have been flirting with this girl thats on your friend list you can see where she was comming from but if you dont flirt with her or talk with her it sounds like youve just been dropped...she probably couldnt think of a reason to break up with you and she just used that as 1!
2007-09-08 17:21:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋