I'm 20 and never been to a party, am I weird?

Question

Am I missing out? I dont drink or smoke and am not looking to have sex with people I dont know, so am I missing? Since I'm not interested in those things I'm not sure what I would do at a party. But it seems like everyone is doing it and I'm weird for not.

Answer 1

No. Your not missing out on anything fun isn't just going to parties and drinking and smoking. Don't let other people pressure you into things, parties are nothing, but trouble, trust me! To many shootings and other weird things happening to innocent people that just want to have fun. Your not weird your just doing the rite thing, finding other things to entertain you.

Answer 2

Well going to a party is just about socializing, hanging out with friends, maybe dancing, if you don't want to drink/smoke/have sex then don't, there are all kinds of parties, the trick is finding the ones you could have fun at.

Otherwise no, you're not weird, but you'll never know what you're missing unless you try stuff out right?

Answer 3

I'm actually close to your age myself, and I don't party, drink, or smoke and I'm definitely not looking to have sex with random people. You're not weird and you're definitely not missing out. I pondered the same thing you are a few months ago. Alot of people in our generation seem obsessed with partying and the like, and whenever I tell these people that I'm not a "partyer" when they ask they assume I'm boring or strange. It's kind of sad really. Again, you're not missing out or weird; you just happen to have a good head on your shoulders.

Answer 4

Parties are totally gay if you are not a party person. I used to get so nervous at a party and didn't know what to say that I would just drink allot to take off the edge but then I would end up getting so drunk and not even remember the night. That life is so empty! STAY AWAy. Keep your soul and build your character

Answer 5

well i am in the same boot that you are only i am older and i have kids , however i was not much into the party thing. and ya i smoke and i am trying to quit, but i am not thinking that you are missing much you have to do what you feel is what you want too do and well i am sure that you have friends and well hey if you only go for coffee that is cool too if you ask me. and hey just remember that one or two good friends is all that one needs, you just have to do what you want too and i am not being one that "partied" i do feel that i lost out.
have a good one

Answer 6

I dont't think that's wierd. Drinking, smoking and having sex with people you don't know, is not a life stlye at all. I seen people who do all that and I think they're wierd. What ever you do is your thing, but it doesn't hurt to go to a party to hang out, you can be the designated driver. But you got your own choices in life and I hope you make them the best choices in life....

Answer 7

You don't have to fall for peer pressure by doing things you don't want to do. But by not going to parties you may miss out on meeting new interesting people that could enrich your life.

Answer 8

It's not weird. If you are not into parties, that's fine. Do things that you enjoy. But so you know, not all parties are about drinking, sex, and drugs.

Answer 9

parties now a days arent the same as they once were..
personally i think its a waste of time..
if you want to have a beer or 2 and chat or socialize then just go to a small bar , set at the counter and see who is in the mood to chat

Answer 10

No, you're not weird, you're special. If you keep up like that you'll live a long life. You should think God everyday for that. Please whatever you do, don't change.