See my father passed away and I made it to the hospital to late my dad had passed away when I pulled in the hospital parking lot. I have had dreams of him alot for the past week and I don't understand it. How can God just take a love one away from the family like this. See I am a christian but I don't understand my dreams I get cold chills at night at my house where my dad slept in my livingroom. It is like he here but I know he is not. See I really don't understand.
2007-09-08 16:04:49 · 10 answers · asked by Jayne H 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Its understandable for you to be upset and confused at losing your father, especially when you had no closure and didnt get to see him before he died.
Dreams are the way our sub conscious minds help us to adjust to traumatic events and situations in life. Death is promised to all who live on this earth....God didnt do anything to you, it was just your dads "appointment" to go. Your father is gone and there is no such thing as people coming back to haunt others. Whatever decision your father made with regard to Christ dying for his sins will determine where he will spend eternity.
You must go on, and grieve. Its normal and you can be a real help to the other members of your family that are grieving as well.
Death is always hard. Allow yourself to keep those memories of your dad alive, and talk about him with friends and relatives.
Im very sorry for your loss.
2007-09-08 16:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by goinupru 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am certain that your father is still with you trying to comfort you in your sense of loss. These dreams are not uncommon and should not concern you in any negative way. Perhaps you should spend some time in prayer or meditation working on your grief so that your father will feel your healing taking place. You will probably find that the dreams begin to subside.
If the dreams do not subside, then it becomes another issue of spirit from the perspective of my spiritual tradition. Since you are a Christian I will not bore you with any of those concepts. I am sorry for your loss.
Be well,
Mambo Michele
http://www.vodouspirit.com
2007-09-08 16:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by mambomichele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry For Your Loss....
Whenever I Hear People talk about " Dreams & a Recent Death"... I think of the Song By the Group HEART..
"These Dreams Go on when I close My eyes".....
2007-09-08 16:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by conundrum 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand it either, sorry for your loss. If you feel spirits around and are a Christian, you have the authority to order them back to the pit in the name of Jesus, believe this, they have no right to bother you. God will help you, just ask him. I pray you will find comfort.
2007-09-09 00:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be afraid he's just trying to say goodbye for now, next time u c him embrace him and you'll feel a whole lot better and the dreams will stop. And don't question death for it is much better than life if you are christian. adon
2007-09-08 16:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by tony p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i completely understand, my family and i ahve been going thru the same thing, my sister and i dream of our mother and we dont understand our dreams either. we miss her terribly, she died of cancer. we have had weird things happen in our homes and hers since shes been gone, and dreams that we cant understand. we still dont. we know shes in a paradise and not suffering anymore that helps. we dont understand our dreams adn we dont know if we ever will. hang in there and if u beleive in god pray to him.
2007-09-12 14:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by renae2007_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams are the product of psychic energy in your brain while asleep not voodoo or some other warped superstitious belief or myth .
2007-09-08 16:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my condolence to you and your family...being a christian means we understand we all must die we must give up this sinful body..we should that joy in knowing that our decease ones are with God
2007-09-08 16:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would know if your father was there because he would tell you ha was there.... if you are open to discussion that is....
2007-09-08 16:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by alsorts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just your imagination - sorry
2007-09-08 16:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋