when i am done eating he will still eat like 3 more plates. he just keeps eating and eating...sometimes i get so annoyed that i have to go outside and get some air! what should i do? be patient? tell him to stop eating? stop going to chinese buffets altogether? also...instead of pooping at the restaurant, or his own house, he does his business at mine. what a jerk!
2007-09-08 15:53:08 · 41 answers · asked by reporting Jamals daddy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It could be greed, it could be a medical condition, or it could be that he has some self esteem problem.
2007-09-08 15:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Yeah, it sounds like maybe the two of you shouldn't go to a buffet together, unless you are with other people so you can just sit for a bit and enjoy each others company while everyone finishes eating. You could also try being patient, but you should be doing that already (he's family and you chose to go out with him knowing what you're in for). Some people insist on eating until they burst at a buffet to get the most out of their money. Maybe you could eat the same amount but take your time so you don't finish so far ahead of him.
As for your other problem, I'm not sure what to suggest. Stop inviting him over after you eat together, or flat out tell him it's rude to poop at someone else's house so he'll have to come up with a different plan.
2007-09-08 16:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him to stop, like that other girl said, but just slowly start staying away from him. If you slowly cut down the amount of times you go to Chinese buffets together, you won't have to deal with him at all. Instead, try taking someone else to the buffet with you. Maybe you will enjoy it better:)
2007-09-08 15:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by supercool1113 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care so much that he eats a lot? As long as he isn't forcing you to do anything, then you should leave him alone about his personal habits; that is his business alone. If it just grosses you out, then either don't look or step outside (or don't go eat with him in the first place). Let the guy enjoy himself.
As for the bathroom business, put a bottle or scented disinfectant in there or something.
2007-09-08 21:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by Echolalia 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stop inviting your cousin to Chinese buffets is the simple solution. Take your cousin to sit-down restaurants which do not offer all you can eat options.
2007-09-08 16:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He should tell you if you do not like it then get out.
You are very selfish about life. You think it should be the way you say.
You do not have to be there to watch.
When it says all you can eat then I am the same I will eat a lot and not worry about what any other thinks.
You do not like it then go.
2007-09-08 16:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
well about the buffet hay he paid for it and it is a all you can eat let him enjoy it , and if it bothers you that much then don't go to those places with him..... Now about him taking care of his business at your house if it was a one time thing and an emergency OK let it slide but if he does all the time that's just plain nasty tell him that you don't appreciate it and it really bothers, you in a nice way if there is one
2007-09-08 16:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by ray1618 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be too concerned about your cousin, you should worry more about what you do. If it really bothers you, don't eat at buffets together. As for the pooping, get some febreeze and get over it.
2007-09-08 16:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by SHSHSH 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude if it was Indian food he wouldn't make it your house in time to poo poo. He'd have to stop on the side of the road. If he does take a dump at your house, give him a box of matches. Maybe you should move and not tell him. He can't poop there if he can't find it. So how's your pooping?
2007-09-10 12:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by Lee K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares!!
Why is it your business how much he eats at a buffet. Is the whole table required to stop eatting when your done or are you just picking on him?
Maybe he is using your bathroom to get back at you because you are being such a jerk at the buffet!
2007-09-08 16:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you should try to be more understanding. General Tso's is the stuff!!! and sometimes you just gotta go, especially after eating chinese. All that MSG's in your body can mess with your tummy!
2007-09-08 15:58:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋