mom/dad I am going out with my boyfriend and we are going to have oral and anal sex. How do you respond to that?
2007-09-08 12:57:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
slap him then ground him and tell him to have more respect for himself and his parents
2007-09-08 13:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by King Tomala 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Um.. not sure why someone would do that, no matter what their preference. You don't generally see a hetero guy saying that sort of thing to their parents, do you?
If perhaps you are actually asking this question in hopes of a response to the question as written ( and my son was of age ), then I would say " Son, what you do is your business, please protect your body and your heart", which, by the way, is exactly the same thing I'd say if he were dating a woman.
2007-09-08 13:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by NinaFromNewEngland 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on his maturity level. If I thought he was mature enough to make his own decisions regarding sex, I'd say, "Too much information, son. I'd prefer if you had stopped at "going out with my boyfriend." I care not to know the rest."
If I did not think he was mature enough yet to have sex, I'd say, "Oh no you're not!" and lock him in his bedroom. Either that or at least make sure he had protection.
2007-09-08 13:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by BlueManticore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sons don't typically share details of their sex lives with their parents.
What would you say if you son told you: "mom/dad I am going out with my girlfriend and we are going to have oral, vaginal and anal sex."? How do you respond to that?
2007-09-08 13:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by Dreamstuff Entity 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Dont look shocked!! some kids think they can get your attention by being in your face.
Smile, sit down. and invite him to talk to you.
"are you trying to tell me something?" always works.
Once your kid understands that nothing can shock u, cause you will love him no matter what...keep an open mind and heart. If you can get your kid to open up and talk, you will have the most amazing experience in valuing your kid as a person, and gain a true friend for life.
Isnt that what we all want? For our kids to respect us for who we are as people, not parents?!
2007-09-08 13:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by Margaret L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol ohh Son!
"Well Alrighty, Dont Get Caught, Now That You Told Your Mom I'm Gonna Have To Beat her Senseless"
*rolls up news paper*
2007-09-08 13:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by [quarantine] 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say the same thing as if my son told me he was going to do that with his girlfriend. I think you're too young, but if you are decided then be safe and responsible, and have a talk about the seriousness of a sexual relationship.
2007-09-08 13:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by keri gee 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If that is what you are planning to tell your parents I would recommend leaving out the personal details. Almost no one wants to hear about the sex that might occur during a date.
2007-09-08 13:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Megs 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Too raw. It would bother me more that he felt so comfortable about telling me his activities in such graphic detail than the fact that he is gay. Assuming I didn't already know. I'm sure I'd feel embarrassed and be speechless.
2007-09-08 15:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by Granny in KS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least pregnancy isn't a concern.
Nowadays you sigh and hand them a box of condoms. You're not going to stop it, just delay it and create resentment in the interim.
2007-09-08 13:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Never had any children but I suspect he would need another place to stay. Not too many Moms and Dads could deal with that kind of talk about his sexual activities.
2007-09-08 13:05:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋