I dated this ony guy and we were only friends but we still had sex, at first everything was ok until on day he did this thing .... (this is so embarrasing) he rubbed his thing on my "tummy" he liked it but i didnt and he actually came (eeeeeeewwwwh) i thought maybe it was gonna happen only that time but no it happend again ever since i felt violated and weired is that a normal thing guys doo ?? I didnt want to tell him anything because maybe he would feel embarrased and now i wont talk to him because of that !!! Is he the weired one or am i just the one who is over reacting ???
2007-09-08 12:46:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a fetish..it's nothing that's really abnormal-it's just incompatible with your relationship. He needs to find a woman that likes that particular activity, there are plenty of them. In the meantime, if you still have sex with him, you need to tell him this is off limits,and why.
2007-09-08 12:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by steve.c_50 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The things that two people do in the bedroom will vary greatly! I don't see anything bizarre about your situation but for anything to be happening, it is reasonable that you both find it acceptable.
No need for anyone to be embarassed or avoid him. Next time you two are having sex and he starts moving in that direction, just tell him that it grosses you out. Perhaps suggest something else to try if you want. He will probably take some "redirection" without any trouble.
If he wont treat you in a manner you find acceptable, dump him, there are plenty of guys out there.
2007-09-08 12:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by TechnoStuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur overreacting.
What are you tripping over? That he came on ur stomach?
I don't hump ppl's tummy's, but if I am doing it, and I don't want to shoot inside, I pull it out and come on her stomach too. Or on her butt, depending on the position.
How can you feel violated if you already have sex with him? The sex didn't make you feel violated? If not, then the ejaculate makes you feel violated?
What did you think would happen when you have sex with a guy? He just pumps out dry air after he comes? Come on now... it's just ***, wipe it off and ur good to go!
2007-09-08 14:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that is not "normal" with regards to sexual behavior is the lack of it. Your boyfriend has found his thing. You might want to ask him what's going on in his head when that happens and what makes if so exciting to him.
Also, if it does freak you out and you don't like it, let him know. I am sure that the two of you can find something that will turn both of you on and help satisfy both of your needs.
2007-09-08 12:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by wildwillyinva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
somewhat what's commonplace now-a-days? all and sundry is re-defining commonplace and if he acts that way and he's mushy with it then you definately could desire to be too. He could be gay he won't be the only element that concerns is which you help him in even though he chooses.
2016-10-18 09:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by abdulla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, I'm sorry but,....how old are you?
Because, yeah, sex involves orgasms, I think that's the big part. If you don't like it then leave him and think about what you want in a person. If you don't like sex, then don't do it.
2007-09-09 12:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by Azu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im obviously not a guy but i had to read it lol...
but yeah thats gross... my boyfriend never did that... and honestly if he did id prolly rip his balls off and throw em in a bush.... thats wrong...
and YOU... why were u havin sex when u were just friends anyway... thats ur fault too.
2007-09-08 12:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is kinda why they say save sex for marriage.
2007-09-08 12:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called *******, and no, it's not normal. It's some weird creepy thing that came over here from Japan.
Once again, proof that we should NEVER have dropped the bomb.
2007-09-08 12:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Shamon C 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
maybe it's some kind of birth control thing.
2007-09-08 13:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Campo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋