2007-09-08 12:05:42 · 30 answers · asked by pc 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Because you have chosen the person you want to love for the rest of your life.
Till then, stay single, experience the world, fill your life with friends.
2007-09-08 12:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Acorn 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is all up to you my brother. Even in the bible it states that people are better off not marrying because then they can focus on God more and do more for him. However, it also says that if you are having a hard time trying to stay sexually pure that you should marry. Better to marry then to burn with lust.(1 Corinthians 7:9) If you marry then your focus is more on your spouse and pleasing him or her. If you are a believer, it says not to engage in fornication as well..and fornication is sexual immorality..which is basically saying that you should not have premarital sex(1 Corinthians 10:8). So if you can abstain from sex, go ahead and stay pure...work for the Lord, if not...it is ok to get married.
Also...I do not know if this applies to you...but if you plan to be are involved in any missionary work...it is better to marry because your spouse will help you through it all, and keep you in prayer.
2007-09-08 12:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage as an institution is an important part of our society wherein individuals entering upon this bond contribute to the social cause of having a family, imbibing social, moral, religious, cultural, ethnic, and local values in their offsprings. A marriage helps create an atmosphere conducive for the proper growth of a child which in itself is a result of marriage.
Ok what I said above was an ideal kind of a thing.
In Hinduism marriage is considered a sacred vow to be taken for the legitimate progression of a family and also to pay back to the society, parents and to secure a future for oneself. These topics constitute another discussion.
Coming to the question at hand, to get married or not in today's modern times has become an individual decision, In th esocial premises of India and cultures around the world it is often a family affair too. Getting married as I see it should be an individual decision as at the end of it all it is the two persons involved whose life is effected, and it is them who have to live with the consequences good and bad. So think over it and decide for yourself if you are willing to take on the responsibility of being responsible not only for yourself but also for your spouse, this goes for your spouse too. If you feel that you do not fit the bill, then do not marry by all means.
One thing is for sure Do Not marry because you are being asked to marry or to make your parents / family / girlfriend / boyfriend happy, or for their happiness. It is you who has to be happy and content at the end of the day for a marriage to workout and be fruitful.
thanks
2007-09-10 20:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by RAKSHAS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you do or not is up to you.
People get married to the person they love and who they are compatible with. They build a life together and have children. Ah yes, and certainly not least, marriage is a legitimate way to enjoy the sex impulse. That is one of the reasons why God gave us marriage, because He wants us to enjoy sex in a legitimate way.
But really, it's up to you. No one
Best to you.
2007-09-08 12:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dolores G. Llamas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have come to see that the only reason for two people to get married is to have children. If you do not wish to have children you are much better off staying single and support yourself. Women are just as capable of supporting themselves without the help of men. You can do more things you wish to do if you do not get married.
2007-09-08 12:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason to marry, as long as there is love you don't need a piece of paper telling you that you are married.
However some people do it for the tradition, and think that a marriage will strengthen a relationship. I believe love is love, married or not.
Unless you mean the legal benefits, I think there are some but I don't know the specifics.
2007-09-08 12:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by travwell 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I got married because I found a woman that makes me happy and we love each other. If you find that kind of woman and feel comfortable with monogamy, then go for it. If not, don't. Marriage isn't for everyone. That's why the divorce rate is so high.
2007-09-08 12:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by razzthedestroyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry if you want a good friend to support you in all the problems and worries that you may go through in your life .
2007-09-08 23:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by Antony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the interest of society. An UN-married man is equal to hundred monkeys.
2007-09-08 17:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage relationship is one of the important one which is spiritually meant for redeeming our previous debts.We owe huge amount of debt to our life-mate.Hence if we are blessed with marriage life,consider it as a means of redeeming our debts with our partner.As from the bodily and mental point of view,marriage is for making us perfect or complete for a man becomes a complete man and a women a complete one only if both get married!!!
2007-09-09 03:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To escape from the immorality , to became a part of society being a perfect man, to contribute the society it's future generation and to obtain mind peace in this world and hereafter
2007-09-08 13:55:55 · answer #11 · answered by kabduk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋