i started new job about month ago.people are not very freindly. its quite hard to get to know them.I am employed to look after children but they are getting me to do clearing up after their mess feel like the dogs body around the school.while they attend to the children,i am a freindly person. I dont understand why they are like this. I want to leave but what do you think i should do.
2007-09-08 11:20:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment ➔ Other - Careers & Employment
RULE #1
Never leave a job before you find another one.
2007-09-08 13:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Demeanor 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You haven't given us enough information. Where would you go, what are your alternatives, are you working for a service that can relocate you? Are you from a foreign country? Do you feel trapped? Is there a contract that spells out exactly what your duties are to be? Are they abusive? Are you a legal immigrant or illegal which might add to your feeling trapped. Do you have other job skills? Do you have a work permit? Will family take you in?
We don't know nearly enough to help you, but in general, if someone is being abusive you don't want to stay in that situation. You don't want them to gradually become more abusive to you. Are they paying you what they promised and can you save for a few pay checks and move on?
We don't know nearly enough about you or your situation and sometimes, the answer ultimately can only come, from inside you.
2007-09-08 18:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tender your resignation. A disappointed or disgruntled person ought not to be working with children. Explain your reasons and how you feel if you are given the opportunity.
Should they beg you to stay ask for a raise, so that they value you more.
On your next job make sure you understand exactly what is involved. The menial tasks are important, no organisation can function without them. Get them to give you a definite job description, and ask what 'other tasks as appropriate' or some such phrase might mean.
2007-09-08 19:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by d00ney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think, you should stay at least until you find another job. After all, don't you have a mortage and some other bills, to pay.
Just because some of the people, you work with don't seem that friendly to you, don't let them stop you from being who you say are. Have a good evening.
2007-09-08 18:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left my management job twenty some years ago and I were glad that I did, these days I manage my RE business in 8 digits. I took one year leave of absent from public traded company, because I know what I want.
Go on life is risky business, you may lose than win, but don't lose your lesson. Be postive and let's hear more good news from you soon.
2007-09-08 18:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by L L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋